Are you naturally confident? For those of you not confident what can you do to get confident and how do you draw the line between confidence and coming across as arrogant? It’s a fine line that is commonly missed interpreted. I’m not a confident person by nature. I find alcohol relaxes me and makes me feel confident but I end up getting drunk which then makes me come across as arrogant. I believe that’s a pretty common misconception? I don’t know. It’s a hard one for me to understand.