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Andrew Fifita battles depression

Bazal

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yep
totally blindsided.

He was an outrageous show off.

Pretty much this. The first thing you learn with depression is how to hide it. Because apart from a few at best, people mostly just don't understand, and at worst they're like some of the oxygen thieves in this thread. And because to an extent it makes it less real if you keep it to yourself. Took me a lot of years and a bad day to face mine.
 

Joker's Wild

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http://www.foxsports.com.au/nrl/spo...b-for-depression/story-fnlt03ir-1227078300537

an incident on kangaroo tour, road rage incident, another incident on his brothers bucks night, and reportedly losing his shit when on the drink.

Great to see his getting the help he needs to treat his alcoholism and sporadic violence....

Oh wait i mean depression.

you don't find fifita's playing the depression card offensive towards people that really do battle this illness?

it's amazing in cases like boyd and fifita's that it get's diagnosed after being naughty boys hey?

yeah boyd was so depressed he was sending happy snaps from greece to his team mates, and williams/carey have both been well reported cases that sort treatment on numerous cases.

Not just when they were caught being wicked naughty boys.

not trolling at all just sick of footballers, using this an excuse for playing up.

Completely disrespectfull to the people that legitimately do suffer from it.

Fifita's only problem is he can't handle his piss and he goes off his trolley after 1 too many.

r u ok m8?
 
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Regardless of it being a footballer or any of us (including BVM who is the classic example of depression) it is a terrible thing to live with. I hope those who do live with it find the coping skills to live a happy life.

Oh and BVM. See a doctor

I get mopey but not depressed thankyou kindly :)
 

BunniesMan

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Some of the anti-depression people here need to understand depression is a real thing.

Some of the people arguing with them need to understand it is impossible to properly identify depression in someone who wants to use it as an excuse. All you need is a quick google search to tell you what to say and do to fake it properly. And if you think nobody has ever faked depression to get their way you are naive.

It is possible to see depression as a real and serious issue, while still having a bs detector out for people faking it.
 

Usain Bolt

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I think it's a load of bullshit personally, everyone is entitled to their opinion so if you wanna believe then that's your choice. I choose to think it's just an excuse for him acting like an idiot
 

TimmyB

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I agree.

It's not something to be mocked. It'd be truly awful, & it wasn't my intention to belittle it.

My only point was, people exploit it, so I don't think people should be lambasted for being skeptical.

It's breathtakingly ignorant though - the very thing Fifita and Boyd did ARE the sort of strife people find themselves in when they are depressed. There is a strong correlation between alcoholism for instance. With bipolar substance abuse is huge.

A lot of people only get the mental health intervention they need after coming into contact with the legal system for the first time.

It's not "amazing" as claimed by op anymore than its amazing when a patient goes and gets chemotherapy for a swelling on their neck.
 

TimmyB

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Just a point - who is this supposed excuse to? There is no statement. Even if it is him acting like a dickhead, it would appear he has gone somewhere to try and fix his issues with gross and to stop acting so impulsively. Don't understand how that is making excuses.
 
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I know 10,000's of 1000's of aussies suffer from depression and I sincerely hope they are getting any and all assistance they need.

I just don't think this meathead being on the piss and getting in a rage counts.
 

carcharias

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I know 10,000's of 1000's of aussies suffer from depression and I sincerely hope they are getting any and all assistance they need.

I just don't think this meathead being on the piss and getting in a rage counts.

I bet this didn't turn out the way you'd hoped ey?
 

Glen

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Shitty thread but typical of some of the boofheaded attitudes to this stuff that you come across daily in society
 

Jason Maher

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GKD and BM: it's easy to make a sweeping claim that loads of people fake depression with no evidence of anyone doing this. Provide said evidence, or shut the f**k up.
 
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