'cause I don't think i've ever had a relationship with anyone I wasn't friends with first looks have never become a real issue to me.
I know with some of my ex's I didn't find them attractive when I first met them but by the time our relationship started I did - its hard to find someone really unattractive if you have have strong feelings for them, you tend to find you start to notice their good features more and the others less (kinda like the alcohol effect but permanent lol).
I think the number one for me has always been someone who shares my sense of humour - if I like someone I'll normally show it by bagging the hell out of them at every oppertunity, the better someone is at a) taking it in the spirit I mean it and b) throwing it back the more likely they are to spark my interest
Intelligence is the second - I couldn't go out with anyone I can't hold a decent conversation with
I don't even know what would be third to me - to be honest nooone I've gone out with has had much more than those first two traits in common...I guess I just like people who are not afraid to be honest about who they are, I hate people who put up an act, most of my friends are all kinda strange and its normally the 'strangeness' that I love about them.
