Ask LU - The relationship advice thread II

[Dani]

a/s/l?

16/f/cali

 

[Misanthrope]

What's with Mis and crazy chicks? Poor bugger

I don't usually mind the crazy ones. They're more likely to tolerate my shit, and they're more fun.

So I've dipped out again,like the other fat chick.

Much like the girl you keep referring to as a fat chick - you were never in contention, dollface.

16/f/cali

Cool. I'm 23/m/Seattle. Totes buff.

 

[sportive cupid]

Oh dear :-(

And I have references and all.

 

[Different kind of Rabbit]

See... What I don't get is the whole stigma surrounding fat chicks. If a guy says he doesn't like round Women, he's portrayed as some sort of shallow monster. If he doesn't like some other characteristic like blue eyes or blonde hair or even hairy toes, that's ok. Why is that?

If you don't like Women (or Men for the ladies playing at home), past a certain weight range, why is that preference treated differently?

 

[Dani]

I like fat guys.

 

[Twizzle]

a/s/l?

50/tranny/pentridge

 

[Misanthrope]

See... What I don't get is the whole stigma surrounding fat chicks. If a guy says he doesn't like round Women, he's portrayed as some sort of shallow monster. If he doesn't like some other characteristic like blue eyes or blonde hair or even hairy toes, that's ok. Why is that?

If you don't like Women (or Men for the ladies playing at home), past a certain weight range, why is that preference treated differently?

And I'm a guy who likes bigger girls. Every girl I've dated (save the latest) was what you would consider bigger. I said curvy, some of the less charitable said 'chubby'.

I just don't like round. If I can make the effort to keep myself from going pear (or apple) shaped, I think it's reasonable to want the same from my partner.

 

[sportive cupid]

I don't mind fat guys.
So long as they have a large fat penis to match.

 

[sportive cupid]

50/tranny/pentridge

That's ageist.

 

[Twizzle]

That's ageist.

I bet you wish you could be 50 again

 

[sportive cupid]

And I'm a guy who likes bigger girls. Every girl I've dated (save the latest) was what you would consider bigger. I said curvy, some of the less charitable said 'chubby'.

I just don't like round. If I can make the effort to keep myself from going pear (or apple) shaped, I think it's reasonable to want the same from my partner.

Yes but you're a guy(well I'm assuming that) .Pear shaped is very common and natural for woman . we should ask the expert,but Cliffy is off climbing a tree I think.But I'm sure she would agree with me.
It's unnatural to expect women not to be pared shaped.

 

[Different kind of Rabbit]

And I'm a guy who likes bigger girls. Every girl I've dated (save the latest) was what you would consider bigger. I said curvy, some of the less charitable said 'chubby'.

I just don't like round. If I can make the effort to keep myself from going pear (or apple) shaped, I think it's reasonable to want the same from my partner.

Why should it matter though? If you said you wouldn't date a Blonde, no one would bat an eyelid. The minute you say "I don't like them round / fat / large" the mob start sharpening the pitchforks.

Shouldn't matter.

 

[Dani]

What kind of woman has hairy toes? Honestly!

 

[Misanthrope]

Yes but you're a guy(well I'm assuming that) .Pear shaped is very common and natural for woman . we should ask the expert,but Cliffy is off climbing a tree I think.But I'm sure she would agree with me.
It's unnatural to expect women not to be pared shaped.

Point missed.

I wasn't literally complaining about pear shaped girls. I've made it abundantly clear that I like girls with extra weight on them. I don't like the morbidly obese in the same way that you don't like whites or small dicks. It's just a preference.

Why should it matter though? If you said you wouldn't date a Blonde, no one would bat an eyelid. The minute you say "I don't like them round / fat / large" the mob start sharpening the pitchforks.

Shouldn't matter.

Agreed. You don't hear people being vilified as shallow for only liking fat girls, either. My mate weighs 70kgs soaking wet and only dates girls much bigger than me.

 

[Dani]

Hook me up, Mis!

 

[Misanthrope]

Hook me up, Mis!

See, you're within my 'type' range.

 

[Different kind of Rabbit]

Agreed. You don't hear people being vilified as shallow for only liking fat girls, either. My mate weighs 70kgs soaking wet and only dates girls much bigger than me.

For every guy who doesn't like the fatties, there is another who loves them. One mans trash is another mans treasure.

If your mate come out and said he'd only date the fat ones, chicks would build a shrine to him and say prayers on it each Sunday. Why is that less shallow than someone only liking skinny chicks?

 

[Dani]

See, you're within my 'type' range.

Um. Thanks?

 

[Different kind of Rabbit]

What kind of woman has hairy toes? Honestly!

Never seen one?

There are a few around.

 

[Dani]

Never seen one?

There are a few around.

Shave that shit. Seriously.