Ask LU - The relationship advice thread

[Drew-Sta]

Aaaaaand the baker comes crawling back.

Ftr, sending me 542257965 texts in 2 days will not get me on your doodle.

Why do you think he wants back? Or is it just a booty call attempt.

 

[Dani]

I'm assuming he broke up/had a fight with his girlfriend.

 

[Drew-Sta]

I'm assuming he broke up/had a fight with his girlfriend.

Ah. Wanting something familiar and 'safe' to comfort him. Understandable from his angle (even though his intentions are probably not right) but quite painful for you.

I take it he broke up with you for spurious reasons?

 

[Joker's Wild]

I'm assuming he broke up/had a fight with his girlfriend.

So its a booty call attempt

Classic play. Rarely works though

 

[Dani]

Ah. Wanting something familiar and 'safe' to comfort him. Understandable from his angle (even though his intentions are probably not right) but quite painful for you.

I take it he broke up with you for spurious reasons?

We were only fwb. He told me over and over he didnt want a relationship. Then I found out he had a girlfriend...

 

[Dani]

So its a booty call attempt

Classic play. Rarely works though

Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me.

 

[Alba]

Do you respond to his texts, Dani?

 

[Earl]

Aaaaaand the baker comes crawling back.

Ftr, sending me 542257965 texts in 2 days will not get me on your doodle.

Thats fair effort. Considering there are 86,400 seconds in a day the baker was putting out 3,138 texts per second or 188,284 texts per minute.

He wants you pretty bad.

 

[Dani]

Do you respond to his texts, Dani?

I did to one. Asked him if his girlfriend knew he was texting me dirty things

 

[Drew-Sta]

We were only fwb. He told me over and over he didnt want a relationship. Then I found out he had a girlfriend...

Ah. So he's thinking with the smaller head of his body :sarcasm:

 

[Alba]

ignore him!

 

[Dani]

Ah. So he's thinking with the smaller head of his body :sarcasm:

Small being a very important word here.


I joke. But seriously. He only wants it when it's good for him. I deserve better

 

[Dani]

Thats fair effort. Considering there are 86,400 seconds in a day the baker was putting out 3,138 texts per second or 188,284 texts per minute.

He wants you pretty bad.

Well I am pretty irresistible...

 

[Drew-Sta]

Small being a very important word here.


I joke. But seriously. He only wants it when it's good for him. I deserve better

As do all women!

 

[sensesmaybenumbed]

As do all women!

Shhh! Not where my Wife can hear you FFS!

 

[9701]

Small being a very important word here.


I joke. But seriously. He only wants it when it's good for him. I deserve better

Of course you do you are wifey material

 

[Dani]

And yet still no ring.

 

[Twizzle]

Well I am pretty irresistible...

never a truer word spoken

 

[Dani]

I think my sarcasm meter just exploded.

 

[Twizzle]

I was serious