Maybe we in here are all to blame.
We are always quick to assume the worst in players.
We all want players punished, and punsihed quickly.
When the nrl doesn't act on allegations we are quick to accuse the nrl of being weak on domestic violence. But when guys like skd and radrara are cleared after already being punished we criticise the nrl for throwing players under the bus.
But when the nrl waits until after the court case has finished like with Auva'a, then again the nrl is criticised.
When stewart was stood down many congratulated the nrl for being proactive. When stewart was cleared many condemned the nrl for jumping the gun.
All of this is a mess. If in the future the nrl waits until after a court case before any punishment and that player is found guilty we'll all start the complaining about how it was handled all over again.
Also it's pretty shitty that guys like skd and radrara are portrayed in the media as absolutely woman bashers without it ever being proven in court, yet even the guy who ran over 6 people in melbourne earlier this year is still an 'alleged murderer' in the media despite their literally being thousands of witnesses and his crimes were televised.