Read the full text exchange between Sam Burgess and his ex-wife Phoebe during footy star's tense standoff with her dad - as his lawyer claims the family were 'determined to ruin his career'
- NRL star Sam Burgess wed Phoebe Hooke near Bowral, NSW, in December 2015
- The couple separated in late 2018, reunited and permanently parted in late 2019
- Burgess had a confrontation with Phoebe's father Mitchell Hooke after the split
- Police subsequently charged Burgess, 32, with intimidation and common assault
- The case is being heard at Moss Vale court where Burgess has pleaded not guilty
- Text messages between the two show the extent of the couple's bitter feud
By
LEVI PARSONS and
STEPHEN GIBBS FOR DAILY MAIL AUSTRALIA
A fiery text exchange between Sam Burgess and his ex-wife Phoebe has been revealed as the NRL star faces court accused of assaulting and intimidating former father-in-law Mitchell Hooke.
The messages emerged as the South Sydney Rabbitohs legend gave evidence at Moss Vale Local Court on Friday.
Burgess described how an access visit with his two children at the Hooke family home in the New South Wales Southern Highlands descended into a slanging match with Mr Hooke after the break-up of his marriage to Phoebe.
Burgess's barrister Phillip Boulten SC also claimed Mr Hooke and his daughter had used the court proceedings as part of a plan to destroy his client's career.
The pair had spoken to lawyers and Mr Hooke had spoken to a public relations expert before they made statements to police.
'They were lawyered-up and PRed up from the get-go,' Mr Boulten said.
'This is an unusual phenomenon. This is not the way things normally occur. This is top-shelf treatment.'
'Mitch Hooke and Phoebe Burgess have tried to destroy my client's career and it's not going to stop here, you might think.'
NRL star Sam Burgess (pictured) has stepped into the witness box to defend himself against allegations he assaulted and intimidated his ex-wife Phoebe's millionaire father Mitchell Hooke
Mitchell Hooke, the father-in-law of former NRL player Sam Burgess, leaves Moss Vale Local Court in Moss Vale in November
Burgess has given evidence that three days before the alleged assault he met Mr Hooke to discuss the break-up with Phoebe, 'basically just to open up lines of communication'. He is pictured with Phoebe above in 2018
Sam and Phoebe's fiery exchange
Saturday 11.48: Hi Phoebe, I'm down in Bowral. Just thought I'd offer to come earlier when poppy wakes up so you're not waiting for me for her chores and then I could still get my time with the kids. Thanks. (Sam)
11.49: Both asleep now. 2pm is still fine. I'll leave you to it today. Phoebe. (Phoebe)
11.49: Great (Sam)
16.04: Let me know when you've left. (P)
16.05: I'm not leaving both kids with your dad. (S)
16.05: Excuse me. (P)
16.05: I will be home in 5 minutes when you have left. (P)
16.06: I am on my way now. (P)
16.06: Harriet is also there (P)
16.06: Ok I'll wait until you get home (S)
16.06: Nobody in the house - want me to leave the kids in the living room (S)
16.07: No, dad will happily sit with them until I am home. ALl good. He's in his office (P)
16.07: Just knock, he will happily come out and I am on the road. (P)
16.07: I'll just wait. No problem. (S)
16.07: Please head off, I am on my way;, honestly I will send a pic when I have arrived home. I am not up to seeing you today, please understand. (P)
16.21: Really should stick to your plan Phoebe. That didn't work (S)
16.22: Don't you ever message me again (P)
16:22: You're still not home. Billy crawling out of the rongt door and poppy as I left (S)
16.22: Great parenting (S)
16.22 I'm here (P)
16.29: Harriet witnessed that - you are a pig. I was waiting in the road to get back to my babies. You're an absolute low life. How dare you. we are done - at least 2 people have now seen who you really are you f**k (P)
16.32: You guys are all the same. Your dad does exactly what you do. None stop, followed me around provoking me. It was exactly like you. Harriet had to come and stop your dad. So bad. The kids were crawling out of the house. I took photos. They were left unattended by your dad (S)
He has previously denied bragging to Burgess that as CEO of the Minerals Council of Australia he had ended the prime ministership of Kevin Rudd.
In that role Mr Hooke had won a brutal fight over what was sometimes known as Mr Rudd's proposed resources super profits tax.
Two hours before the scheduled October 19, 2019, visit Burgess said Phoebe withdrew an offer for him to come earlier to spend more time with the children.
'I was disappointed considering the very short period of time I was allowed with the children,' he said.
To fill in time he spent about an hour and a half in the Royal Hotel at Bowral talking to locals and drinking four schooners of Great Northern mid-strength beer.
Burgess said when he arrived at the Hooke home about 2pm he was met by Mr Hooke who told him: 'The kids are there, instructions are there', then left him alone with the children.
About 4pm Phoebe, 31, sent Burgess a text message asking him to leave the property. At 4.04pm she sent another message saying, 'Let me know when you've left'
Sam Burgess grins as he heads into court with his lawyer to face charges of assault and intimidation against his estranged father-in-law
Burgess, pictured with his mum Julie left, is accused of assaulting and intimidating Mitchell Hooke at the Hooke family home, although no actual physical violence has been alleged against him
About 4pm Phoebe, 31, sent Burgess a text message asking him to leave the property.
At 4.04pm she sent another message saying, 'Let me know when you've left.'
Asked how he felt after receiving that message, Burgess said, 'I was happy because I'd got four minutes extra by this point.'
Burgess sent Phoebe a text to say he would wait until she returned to the house because he did not want to leave the children unattended.
Phoebe insisted Burgess leave in another text, then Mr Hooke emerged from his office and spoke to Burgess.
'He tapped his watch and said, "Time's up, let's go",' Burgess told the court.
'I told Mitch I thought that this was inhumane.
'At this point I didn't really want to argue or discuss things in front of the kids. I said, 'Mitch, please, not in front of the children. Let's leave it.'
'He said, 'Since you opened the batting I'm going to continue'.'
Burgess said he left the house and Mr Hooke followed him outside.
He attended Moss Vale Court for the final AVO hearing on Friday with his lawyer Bryan Wrench (left)
'I said, "Mitch, I think you're a bad person inside and out... and that's why Phoebe is the way she is." I told him he couldn't make up for lost time.'
Burgess said Mr Hooke approached him on the pebble driveway and said, 'You could have had all this'.
'I think he meant the property,' Burgess said.
'He was pretty upset. He then shouted at me. He said, "F*** you Sam''. I returned serve. I said, "F*** you Mitch, you're a piece of s***".
'He said, "Sam, nobody loves you. Your own family doesn't love you We loved you. You've thrown that away".''
Burgess said he then told Mr Hooke: 'No one in this whole town likes you. You're a bad person'.
'Then I called him a piece of s***,' Burgess said.
Burgess told the court he was unhappy about leaving the multi-million dollar Glenquarry estate outside Bowral, known as Daffodil Downs, before Phoebe returned.
'I didn't want to leave the children with Mitch because I didn't trust him with them,' he said. 'He'd never had them before by himself.'
'I'm not leaving both kids with your dad… Nobody in the house - want me to leave the kids in the living room?' Burgess texted Phoebe in a series of messages.
Phoebe urged Sam to leave the children with her father so she did not have to see Burgess before he left.
Burgess wrote that he would rather 'wait' for her to return.
'Please head off, I am on my way; honestly I will send a pic when I have arrived home. I am not up to seeing you today, please understand,' Phoebe wrote.
When Burgess replied 'you really should stick to your plan,' Phoebe said 'don't you ever message me again'.
At 4:22pm Burgess complained that Phoebe was 'still not home' and wrote 'great parenting'.
Seven minutes later she sent a message in which she called Burgess 'a f***', 'an absolute lowlife' and 'a pig'.
Burgess then replied to his former partner and drove off.
'You guys are all the same. Your dad does exactly what you do. Non-stop, followed me around provoking me. It was exactly like you. Harriet had to come and stop your dad. So bad. The kids were crawling out of the house. I took photos. They were left unattended by your dad,' he wrote.
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