Fetishes

[Bulldog Force]

Where's Dani when you need her?

 

[Dani]

Wut?

 

[Dani]

Sorry. Too busy playing with my boobs.

 

[umina panther]

Dani has a stalker

 

[Drew-Sta]

I realise I'm assisting in the derailing of a thread so I'll make this my last comment in here. I'm happy to keep discussing it somewhere else though.

Unless the woman I'm with is a long term partner of mine who I have developed feelings for, I don't have ANY feelings of love for someone I'm with. The act of pleasuring my partner heightens my own pleasure, otherwise I wouldn't do it.

I didn't dodge it at all man, I answered it. There are emotions around sex, but I don't think love is necessarily one of them. Of course it sometimes is, but in the context of a one night stand awkwardness, fear (of social consequences), excitement, anticipation are all emotions you feel that don't induce feelings of love or attachment. It changes your relationship because you are literally laid bare and you physically share your body with another person. It's something so alien to all other forms of interaction that there's no escaping the fact that it changes your relationship.

I'm suggesting sex is an act of love.

The bold is the part I'm zoning in on, anyway. The fact it completely bares one to another is, in my view, why it cannot be just a physical act. The sharing of your body for sex is something more than just a physical act; it has to be.

We as a culture have so many taboos about nudity and sexuality that when you go through that experience with someone it's like you've shared a piece of a secret with them. The change in a relationship is the result of bending or breaking those taboos with somebody. If we understood and did away with all that shit I believe it would be possible to have purely physical sex.

I think the taboo's are about the act itself, rather than the change in the relationship. But, of course, it's a complicated topic.

you`re obviously a chick

:lol:

So when you have a wank, do you feel an emotional sense of you loving yourself? After all, if pleasuring someone else sexually is, as you said "you loving them", are you than loving yourself?

Good question. Haven't thought of it like that.

 

[Dani]

Dani has a stalker

Obviously a boob man.

 

[umina panther]

He seems very persistent haha

 

[Skinner]

A fapping stalker, I would hazard a guess..

 

[Bulldog Force]

Wut?

Did I say Dani? Sorry, I meant StormChaser!

 

[butchmcdick]

A fapping stalker, I would hazard a guess..

Be easy to find just follow the trail of dried fap

(Thank you I will see myself out)

 

[the dude]

Don't know if its really a fetish but the most important feature on a girl minus her face are her legs. Gotta have nice ones to get a chance with me

 

[Alba]

This has been a very informative and interesting read! Thanks guys (and gals)!

 

[Dragon2010]

Da legs is where's it at. Legs are always good!

 

[Misanthrope]

I love legs.

 

[Misanthrope]

This has been a very informative and interesting read! Thanks guys (and gals)!

Aw, come on Alba! Spill. What do beautiful girls not named Dani like?

 

[sensesmaybenumbed]

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