whilst not condoning the actions of those players mentioned, and I’m very much in the camp of not allowing players that damage the games reputation to play again, the actions of those,as abhorrent as many of them are, are against an individual. I’d say if Lodge had been openly saying it’s ok to abuse families or Bird had been preaching that women who get abused deserve it then it would be akin to Folau who is openly and repeatedly attacking a whole section of the community, a vulnerable section at that. Is it worse or not worse, that’s each individuals opinion. I guess unless you are gay and have had sht thrown at you all your life it would be hard to judge how damaging the likes of Folau are on an individual level.