Madden is generally the same for a few seasons, but so far some of the reviews have been very positive and the changes seem to make the game significantly better.
To be fair, ever since I had my 2 kids, I am kinda struggling to fit in any type of game. The problem is everything is excessively violent, so when I can play I generally chose not too.
At least with Madden, I could play a game..it would probably take me like 4 hours for a game though lol, would have to pause every few minutes.
The features are supposed to be similar across all platforms. You could just buy it on the 360.