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OT: Old Jets player , Paul Hayward.

carcharias

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In the Tele today it has a story in "What happened next" about a bloke called Paul Hayward .
I can only assume with what is happening in Bali at the moment that the tele thought
that now was as good a time as ever to tell his story , albeit very briefly.
He played for the Jets in the 70's and was also an
accomplished boxer at the time.( NSW amateur welterweight champ)

He got himself mixed up with a bloke called Warren Fellows
who's father rode 1949 Melbourne cup winner "Foxzami".
Fellows was a hairdresser/drug smuggler and had done numerous
"mule" runs for certain Sydney underworld characters through India .

Fellows coerced Hayward into going to Thailand with him as a bit of hired help to collect some money.
Both men always claimed that only Fellows was privy to the true reason, which was a Heroin smuggling job.

To cut a long and harrowing story short , they both got busted and convicted of smuggling around 8 Kg's
of Heroin and were given bloody long sentence's . This obviously spelt the end of
Haywards football career.

They both spent around 11 (and some) years in Bwang Kwang and other notoriously brutal Thai prisons.

They both got pardons on the Kings birthday or some shite and were sent back home.

When Hayward got home he was a broken man whose sanity had more than likely unravelled overseas.
He ended up dying from a Heroin overdose... a free man.....in physicality only.

The saddest part of this whole story is that Paul Hayward prior
to being locked away had never used drugs or even seen Heroin.
He got addicted in a Thai prison .

If your interested in and are unaware of this story you can read Warren Fellows book
" The Damage Done" .

I've read it about 5 times , it's only about 350 pages and an absolute page turner.
I usually read it on overseas trips and then give it other travellers...
..........just in case they need an excuse not to be an idiot.

Funny thing is it is for sale everywhere in Bangkok's main airport.
I struggle to understand their way of thinking sometimes...it doesn't seem to bother them that their
dirty laundry is being aired in such a detrimental and public way.
Maybe they think it is a deterrent......it paints a very bad picture of Thai prison system.

One other shocking but somehow amusing part of the book is about one of Fellows earlier smuggling trip's .
He flew into Sydney airport and was carrying a rather large amount of smack.
When he went to go through customs he noticed the cops had been tipped off about
a drug smuggler coming through ( probably him).
He had also noticed a bunch of coppers on their way home from a holiday/junket , they were
all pissed up good .
He decided to get amongst them , a few of them flashed their Badges and got let straight through.
One of the stupid pissed coppers had his arm around Fellows , all the drug cops and custom officials
assumed Fellows was one of the pissed cops.
He got let straight through.
 

Bluebag

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The Damage Done is one of the best books I have read and should be mandatory for all school kids to read, if that does not make people think then nothing will. I keep reading the book over and over.

Paul committed suicide soon after returning to Australia.
 

carcharias

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Paul committed suicide soon after returning to Australia

Yeah that was story getting around.

Also the paper say's that Paul and Fellows had AIDS, this is untrue , only Paul had it.
Fellows was put into hospital on his return suffering from malnutrition and Hepatitis.
 

DJDL

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If your interested in and are unaware of this story you can read Warren Fellows book
" The Damage Done" .

I've read it about 5 times , it's only about 350 pages and an absolute page turner.
I usually read it on overseas trips and then give it other travellers...
..........just in case they need an excuse not to be an idiot.

Awesome book.

When I was in Thailand that's all I could think of and was not tempted to touch anything like that.

While on Koh Pha Ngan there was a group of about 6 Swedish guys staying where I was. They had a shopping bag full of pot, which they were selling to pay for their trip. EVERYONE knew they were selling it, and they walked around openly with the bag.

I told them they should hide it, read that book, then have a think about what they were doing. They just laughed.

God knows what happened to them.
 
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I caught you knockin'
at my cellar door
I love you, baby,
can I have some more
Ooh, ooh, the damage done.

I hit the city and
I lost my band
I watched the needle
take another man
Gone, gone, the damage done.

I sing the song
because I love the man
I know that some
of you don't understand
Milk-blood
to keep from running out.

I've seen the needle
and the damage done
A little part of it in everyone
But every junkie's
like a settin' sun.

Neil Young
 

Glenndonna

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8) Great book, I was going to Thialand for my honey moon and I was driving a school bus at the time and a girl on the bus gave me the book to read a week before I left ,,every kid who is thinking of backpacking around the world should read this book,,they will think twice about Drugs in anway shap or form. Paul Hayward was a great footballer and should be remembered that way,,,, anway im off to have a scoob,,,
 

Booyah

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I've also read about it, but I don't think it was the same book you were talking about. My book was from Fellows' perspective.

I remember Fellows saying they'd be fed rice for dinner and instead of eating it, they'd give it to some captured cockroaches to fatten them up so they could eat the protein later on. :shock:

Shocking story, but if you do the Crime you do the time.
 

sharknows

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Thanks for the tip on the story Carch, that book is now on my must get list. At the time Paul Hayward was busted I had a couple of mates playing for the jets and often had a beer with them and the other players at the Henson Park Hotel. Paul was a really likeable knockabout bloke who never ever had a cent to bless himself. Overnight it seemed he started throwing money around joking about his "shopping trips" to Thailand. Poor bugger wasn't the sharpest tool in the shed and was scared of nothing. I'm sure he didn't really comprehend the consequences of his stupidity.
 

carcharias

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That's the book.

Warren Fellows wrote it with some writer.

And the rice was being fed to the rats to fatten them up as well.

Which is ,considering I saw rat on a menu in Vietnam this year , not too weird.
 

Booyah

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All this drug smuggling shite has now convinced me that I will never ever go to a third world country, no matter how cheap it is or how 'friendly' the locals are.
 

carcharias

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All this drug smuggling shite has now convinced me that I will never ever go to a third world country, no matter how cheap it is or how 'friendly' the locals are.

Don't let it stop you.

I have spent collectively about 2.5 years in the third world, be it Africa or Asia and met some of greatest people on earth.

Those caught with the smack are f**king idiots , there are signs everywhere telling you of the penalty.
Not to mention how destructive their actions would of been had they got away with it.

Corby is silly for not locking her bag , you must be careful anywhere in the world.
I hope she is telling the truth.

I got robbed in Africa on a train in a first class sleeper carriage with two of my mates.

A business man came in , in the middle of the night from somewhere along the way.

We unlocked the door for the f**ker.

Next thing I know we pull into a stop , we unlock the door for him again so he can get off.
A split second later he was gone with my walkman ,
all my cash and jewellery I had collected over 8 months from the Masi Mara in Kenya.

I left my day bag on a luggage rack above his bed.

I let my guard down once and got got.

GONSKI!

Plus drugs and airports are worst enemy's.

Go , its cheap and there are plenty of chicks travelling .
( just don't trust any of them that have been away longer than you...its the golden rule)

Bung on a rubber even if your having a toss , get stuck into the local beer .
Keep your nose clean ...in more ways than one.... and you'll have the time of your life.
 

Shark

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This Fellowes character was on John Laws the other day...I happened to hear it coz I was driving and it was the only station I could pick up!

Apparently a story going around at the time these guys were busted was that they were shipping the stuff for Laws and Singo!

He also said that he is HIV+, and that he picked it up while in prison.
 
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