Oh ,isn't a transvestite a man who enjoys wearing women's clothes predominantly ?Its not a gender,some are gay,most are hetro.
What if I was a bi-sexual transvestite .I might find the penis useful to reciprocate.
...or ..what if I was a middle aged woman,comfortable in my heterosexuality who didn't mind the thought of perhaps trying new things.
How would any of this help you understand me .
Either your memory is very poor ,or you have a degree of trouble integrating information from several different sources .
( try re reading some of the threads where you talked about your new baby.)
Why do you demand so much information about my love life, but get antsy when Drew demands more information about you?
He's only trying to understand you, after all.
What Mis said, mainly, because despite pleading 'not antsy' your tone is significantly peeved.
Mate, I haven't got a problem with what you want in what hole or whether you dress one way or another. Or even if you saw the need to cut off your penis.
But I do find it hard to interact with you or even watch you interact with others when you show such incredible disdain for what is essentially fairly standard sexual intimacy practices.
Secondly, do you
really think I remember anything from when my baby was born? I can't remember what I did last night my mind is so warped from sleep deprivation. I have no interest in searching through the forum to recall them anyway. If you feel the need to dodge a very straight forward question about your personhood then it says more about your level of comfort in declaring it than it does my lack of memory retention.
Why does this help me understand you? Because gender is
the foundational building block upon which the human experience is base. You cannot, and I repeat, cannot ever step into the shoes of the other gender in any significant way to understand their perspective because your view is always clouded by your born gender. Even those who chop it off / stick it on are still, in their genetic make up, defined as what they were born as.
So when you come out with these wildly amusing claims regarding the intimate lives of others and claim we should 'broaden our horizons' or some such, I am interested to know exactly where this is coming from. I like my horizons where they are and find my sex life perfectly normal and satisfying even though you would probably class it as vanilla and boring. Why do you feel the need to poke fun at peoples intimate lives the way you do?
And don't call it healthy challenging; thats bullocks. Its clearly poking fun of because you seem to believe your own intimate life is somehow more enlightened than others due either to age or the extremity of the practices you participate in.
