I never thought i'd hear the words come out of my mouth but saint i totally agree with you.
While in some ways i supported the NRLs darby match idea to start the season this year, they were potential blockbusters thrown down the drain. Your not going to get your best game entertainment wise at the start of the year, thats simple logic.
I agree with your idea to leave the double header until a few rounds in when teams have warmed into the season and players have found their feet.
I'd love to see old enemies Canterbury and Parramatta face each other followed by a charity shield match between Souths and Saints. You'd get a great crowd and a much better spectacle if this was held in say round 5.
Another idea is a Queensland double header. The double headers at the moment have a strictly Sydney feel to them. Why not have a Brisbane and North Queensland double header as well. Brisbane could face off against say melbourne (my personal choice, there is a little rivalry building there) and North Queensland against, well i don't know exactly maybe a few suggestions there. Still Have the Nth Qld game first heading into the main event of a very lively clash between brisbane and melbourne. Have the match at ANZand when lang park is fixed up move it there. I think the idea could take off and draw in a big crowd for the 2 Queensland sides.
For the first round, i don't think they have to be big showdowns, no real one sided match ups but nobody really expects much first round. One thing i would like to see are the 2001 premiers against the newly admited Souths as the first game in 2002 to hopefully welcome in a new beginnning for league.
Cheers
bronco