Actually, no. This deserves more of a response.
Cultures and their levels of response vary greatly. Misanthrope is pretty well traveled - I'm sure he'd agree with this. I'm not sure how much you have traveled abroad, if at all. The generalisations you mentioned above are not only pretty offensive, they come off as somewhat naive and misinformed. I'm genuinely asking a question here - have you traveled OS - really done it? I mean away from the main centres and experienced the reality of life in another country, it's customs and way of life for weeks or months at a time? Contiki and the like just don't count for anything in this regard.
The culture in asia varies greatly. Japan and Vietnam have about as much in common as Britain and Russia. It's a generalisation I'm using here, but Japan for example has a very rigid social structure and the methods of expressing displeasure, unhappiness and happiness are (by 'western' standards) very subtle.
Don't assume that there's no fire, spirit or feeling in the relatively minor or unusual reactions that people have to things that you might react to differently. People are people everywhere you go - the way they express things can change greatly though the feelings they experience are the same.
The idea that you have the 'perfect woman' checklist in your head is a bit silly to me.
Have an open mind, and every encounter could turn out to be 'the one'. (which is also unrealistic - there is no such thing and it's cruel to believe otherwise)
Having such a rigid list means you'll c**k-block yourself!
Relationships, especially long term ones, are all about compromise. A relationship without it is doomed to fail - no person will simply follow orders forever unless the spirit has been beaten out of them, and that's not a relationship. It's slavery in an ugly cage.
Keep an open mind - they could pop up anywhere at any time, and it's a crying shame if people miss out because the chance was ignored simply because the other party was (for example) green eyed instead of brown.
I did live OS for a year & have visited a few countries, but none in Asia. I'll totally retract anything deemed offensive --- what I meant was that in my experience of Asian girls here in Australia who are actually from Asia, they are incredibly shy & reserved (& generally prefer Asian guys anyway). I leave Asian women well enough alone, but part of it is also that its frustrating that they struggle with the language & humour us Australians have. That's understandable & I'm not holding that against anyone --- I'm only saying it kills the rapport a bit. I've dated two German girls & had the same problem. Its just nice to be with someone who gets your way of life because it is also their way of life.
This is what I mean by wolves & dogs. In this sense, 'dog,' is extremely positive & desirable. It is not to be confused with the way other people negatively use it. In a wolf (Asian), you have an extraordinarily beautiful animal, but one from another world, with different rules & a different way of life in the wild (Asia), while a dog (Asian genes, Australian-raised) has all the spectacular looks of a wolf, but has been raised among us (Aussies), & so is more in-tune with all things Australian, much the same way as a dog is in-tune with all things human in a way a wolf isn't.
None of that is to say my type is better, merely preferential to me. The thread is, after all, about our types. The girl I've been seeing recently is of Chinese descent, but she's raised here in Sydney, where she was born. That's an example of my type. No race is more attractive to me than Asian --- & the cultural style most attractive to me, in the context of a relationship, is my own.
Oh & no looking for the one or the perfect woman on my part --- was engaged once, that's enough heavy relationship drama for one lifetime, thanks.
