I've kept this as a separate post, because it's a bit of a TLDR and probably no one else cares, which is 100% fair.
In our side, we've got a gun young bat. 16 years old, and after 11 rounds he's our second top run scorer with probably the nicest looking technique I've ever seen outside international cricket. Last year he took a year off cricket, having gone off to play some high level junior cricket or other, and his old man (who plays fives) said he was contemplating giving the game away. This is a kid who has scored three back to back fifties batting five in second grade at age 16...he's very, very good and loves the game.
So when he was mooted for the move into our side after the first few rounds I pulled him and his old man aside for a chat about it, because I didn't want to push him up too high for one, and because I wanted to make sure he was having fun and that we didn't wreck that. We got to chatting about the reasons he wanted to quit, and he unloaded on the coaching system in the juniors.
Basically, he was getting stick from his teammates, coaches, and other parents as a number three bat for scoring too slow. He was (and still is) getting out chipping balls to mid-on consistently and he wanted to sort that out, technically, so he went to his coaches only to be told stuff like "don't worry about it, just try to focus on hitting the ball harder so it goes over the fielder" and "play your natural game and it will sort itself out." Obviously I'm paraphrasing, but the gist was that he wanted to sort out an aspect of his game, and his coaches flat out told him it wasn't important so long as he could score runs otherwise. And the parents were apparently shocking, basically controlling the side and carrying on if anyone criticised or stood in the way of their little superstar. He wound up batting 7 and 8 because parents complained that he didn't hit as many boundaries as their kids, parents were sledging him, and the real final straw was one of the coaches telling him he was "a bit selfish" for playing the way he did and for taking up their time every week asking the same questions about how to fix his mid-on issue...
I mean, obviously that's just one side of the story, but it parallels a few others I've heard in a lot of ways. There are very serious issues at grass roots level in Australia. And it's not just junior cricket either, The Grade Cricketer lads have had some excellent discussions about Greg Chappell and the way he wrecked grade cricket...