I assumed, when the changes were made to the assistants, that they would have been selected at Hook's request. Now, it seems, that wasn't the case. This tells me that whoever did recruit these guys is a pretty good judge (I like both Carr and Woolf). It seems pretty obvious now too that the retirement of Macca, the non-extension of Norman, the recruitment of the young Manly guys, the transfer of Woods, the recruitment of Liddle, and the selection of Sullivan to run-on against Tigers (from memory) didn't involve Hook. Hook insisting on Mbye at 9 to run-on was Hook's call, and he knew it would cost an interchange. It's glaringly obvious where the 'rift' was.
I've always said 'ears are the best management tools' - arrogance is destructive to any joint objective (aka: team work). Bennett has made this point repeatedly. He talks to players individually but, much more importantly, he listens to them individually, gives them time, and he thinks about them and their ambitions, challenges and needs as individuals. This is the main ingredient in the respect, even devotion, he obtains from his players as individuals. Then he talks to them as a group, and every one of them listens to him, the same way he listens to them, soaking-up his instructions and guidance. That's leadership.
IMO Hook, clearly, is not in the same ballpark.