Of course, Soward could always have remembered what he should have learnt as a kid first playing sport, that swearing at the ref is never acceptable.
They're not kids.
It's naive to think players don't ever swear while appealing a decision. It happens every weekend.
myanonymoususername said:
I think its more the aggression he showed in getting in the ref's face than the words themselves that were the problem.
Nonsense. Think about stage of the game and if commonsense should have prevailed. If it happened to your team and it cost them a match, you'd be screaming. Cecchin is only dodging the full brunt of criticism he deserves because Saints showed a huge amount of ticker and refused to lay down after what was a stupid call.
myanonymoususername said:
I think the refs generally let the players get away with too much in arguing with them over decisions. The one that really got me recently was Farah telling the touch judge in a game recently something like "you happy you got your face on TV". To me that is disrespect, and he should have been binned and penalised, but the ref did nothing.
Thanks for proving my point. It rarely happens. But you're talking about real dissent from Farah. Soward was attacking the ref. He was appealing the decision, and he had good reason to think the ref got it wrong. He may have been animated - went about it loudly (by his own admission), but he wasn't being personally abusive or threatening.
Lots of players get away with it.
But Cecchin decided one day to clamp down on it just before fulltime with a penalty right in front.
myanonymoususername said:
I also heard Hornby saying to Checcin something like "are you sure about that? thats a big call?" - all that is designed to do is intimidate the ref out of making big decisions which I also think should be stamped out.
Heads up Einstein. Hornby is the captain and is fully entitled to question the decision.
Designed to intimidate? Please.
FTR, Cecchin replied to Hornby and agreed that it was a big call.
myanonymoususername said:
I'd actually be happy for the refs to show zero tolerance to the slightest hint of dissent (and call players by their numbers not first names)
Even the great Col Pearce (in the days of players being referred to by number) knew that he was on the same field as men, and he wasn't conducting a Sunday church service.
myanonymoususername said:
but they've set the bar so low these days that its an anomaly when they actually penalise anyone.
An honourable pursuit, write the NRL a letter.
But again, thanks for proving my point. They don't show zero tolerance. But for some reason you think it is suddenly acceptable for a ref to go against the grain and award a contest killing penalty on the stroke of full time. Show me some consistency on that front and I might be able to agree. But without consistency, the ruling just becomes an overeaction generated by ego.
I know you think refs should be given the utmost respect and I agree to a point, but respect is earned. The refs should never be above scrutiny or criticism. Furthermore, they should always be aware that fans have paid to watch the players and a game of Rugby League between two teams.
The last thing we need is another Hartley or Harrigan thinking they are the main attraction.