This is State of Origin.
Mate against mate. State against state. If you have friends north of the border then they aren't your friends anymore. At least not tonight.
This is all about who wants it more. Do you want it? Do you? Ask yourself that when you have nothing left in the tank and you are in the trenches with your mates. How badly do you want this?
What will you tell your family when you get home? Your grand kids in future? 'Yes little Johnny, I was there and I gave 110% and I shed blood for my state...I hope you will get to one day as well'. You need to love what you do, even die for it. This isn't a Sunday social.