94: Superthread 9 I

[Jobdog]

The cheerleader and the girl from Mudfest are one in the same

But this is the girl with a boyfriend. Her folks are in town and she doesn't want her mother knowing about our affair

So in other words, she's a s**t

 

[Misanthrope]

So in other words, she's a s**t

Mate, life is never that simple. She's a lovely girl put in a bad situation. No more at fault in this than I am for pursuing her. Don't judge a situation without knowing the circumstances. That's like me saying that your girlfriend has terrible taste in men

 

[Jobdog]

Mate, life is never that simple. She's a lovely girl put in a bad situation. No more at fault in this than I am for pursuing her. Don't judge a situation without knowing the circumstances. That's like me saying that your girlfriend has terrible taste in men

Of course not mate, but don't take me seriously if I put a "" in, hardly anyone else does ;-)

 

[Monk]

i think you should talk to her, tell her that the situation make you feel like sh*t and that she needs to get her prioritys straight. The best thing for you to do it seems would be to let her go.

 

[Misanthrope]

The best thing for you to do it seems would be to let her go.

Yeah, I know it, too. But there's a lot to like about her, and as far as girls go, she has a lot of things I'm looking for. She knows the situation makes me feel rotten, which is why she broke it off once before, but she missed me and I missed her - and so we relapsed and now we're back to where we were before.

I'm under no illusions that she'll actually break up with her guy when she gets home. Even if she believes it now, it'll be hard as hell to dump him in person with tears and promises and begging. And even if all that eventuates, she'll be in South Africa and I'll be in Australia.

So, in the interim, I guess we're kind of friends with benefits. She can't give me everything I want, and I can't allow myself to commit to that. So I'm free to get involved with other girls, but I know full well that it hurts her when I do, so I try to pick them wisely

And, while there are sh*tty days, I do like having the closeness and the other, more fun stuff in my life - even if it isn't perfect, it's better than porno magazines and wrist cramps

 

[Dani]

You have more women problems than anyone i know!

Buy a dog, much more loyal.

 

[Bazal]

You have more women problems than anyone i know!

Buy a dog, much more loyal.

It is, however, illegal to do the things you do with a woman to a dog...

 

[Jobdog]

:lol:

 

[Dani]

You're right hand will never say no.

 

[Twizzle]

neither will a dog

 

[Misanthrope]

neither will a dog

But, depending on the class of women you bring home, it's far more likely to sh*t on your carpet

 

[McLovin]

Anyone ever taken a dump in a taxi?

 

[Misanthrope]

No, but I've vomitted in many.

 

[Dani]

Tgif

 

[Twizzle]

damn straight

 

[Dani]

I have to work tomorrow. Not so Tgif.

 

[Twizzle]

are you still moving to Sydney ?

 

[Dani]

I have the job interview on the 8th. But all signs point to yes.

 

[Joker's Wild]

Yeah, I know it, too. But there's a lot to like about her, and as far as girls go, she has a lot of things I'm looking for. She knows the situation makes me feel rotten, which is why she broke it off once before, but she missed me and I missed her - and so we relapsed and now we're back to where we were before.

I'm under no illusions that she'll actually break up with her guy when she gets home. Even if she believes it now, it'll be hard as hell to dump him in person with tears and promises and begging. And even if all that eventuates, she'll be in South Africa and I'll be in Australia.

So, in the interim, I guess we're kind of friends with benefits. She can't give me everything I want, and I can't allow myself to commit to that. So I'm free to get involved with other girls, but I know full well that it hurts her when I do, so I try to pick them wisely

And, while there are sh*tty days, I do like having the closeness and the other, more fun stuff in my life - even if it isn't perfect, it's better than porno magazines and wrist cramps

I hope you dont mind if I weigh in on this champ

What I think you really need to do in this situation, speaking from personal experience in a very similar scenario, is to stop the physical stuff all together. Friends with benefits is great if both parties can keep feelings at a distance but once real attachments are formed what was once a nice, fun arrangement can quickly turn very messy as you are no doubt experiencing right now.

I know being a guy makes us especially vunerable to thinking with our wangs instead of with our heads and when sex is offered up on a plate it is very hard to knock back. However bro the craving for physical contact and "closeness" your talking about is messing with your head and giving into it with a girl who you obviously want to be with but is unwilling to give her all to you is selling yourself short in a massive way.

Now if you hold back with the sexy time, I know it is a tough gig to do, it just may get the message across that she doesnt get all of you until she grows a pair (so to speak) and makes a decision on who and where she wants to be. As long as the other guy is in the picture and real feelings are involved the 2 of you will be dancing in circles and never be able to move forward. Take it from someone who has been there and has come out the other side.

Good luck mate

 

[Dutchy]

5 mins net access :crazy: