Ask LU - The relationship advice thread II

[God-King Dean]

Hit her.

 

[butchmcdick]

She does have a lot of hot friends... mission accepted.

What do I do about the texts/hawt pics? Just ignore?

I still say you try to bang her next time the hot selfies come. Either you get to bang her or she stops sending them. One way or another you are out of the friend zone

Let me ask you this monk man.

If I came to you and said a hot chick i tried to get with once had shot me down and then sent me hot selfies when she was drunk but pretty much won't give me the steam off her shit if I was freezing when she is sober what would you advise ?

 

[Monk]

I still say you try to bang her next time the hot selfies come. Either you get to bang her or she stops sending them. One way or another you are out of the friend zone

Let me ask you this monk man.

If I came to you and said a hot chick i tried to get with once had shot me down and then sent me hot selfies when she was drunk but pretty much won't give me the steam off her shit if I was freezing when she is sober what would you advise ?

I'd be like "root her while she's drunk brah"

 

[butchmcdick]

I'd be like "root her while she's drunk brah"

I think you have your answer

 

[adamkungl]

Monk if you introduce me to your sister, snapchat chick will probs bang you

 

[Monk]

Monk if you introduce me to your sister, snapchat chick will probs bang you

If you arsed your way down to the gong more often you'd probs have met her by now. She's a bit young for you tho tbh.

 

[dogslife]

Take her on a date to Chickos

 

[Monk]

If a chick took me on a date to Chickos she'd be marriage material tbh.

 

[IanG]

Is fast tracking things possible? Made me thought of what my plan was back in 2006 when I had a thing for this girl in Adelaide I'd met on line. The plan was to go over there for a week to see her. etc etc etc. The planned trip sadly didn't eventuate. but looking back on it would we have been able to figure out if we'd click in person in just a week even with us seeing each other every night.

 

[Apey]

IanG, it's pretty easy to give you a guy like you advice.

Whip it out.

 

[Monk]

Apey knows

 

[adamkungl]

If you arsed your way down to the gong more often you'd probs have met her by now. She's a bit young for you tho tbh.

Done ...

Take her on a date to Chickos

..aaand done.

I got dis

 

[Rebel]

Why are women so stubborn? I thought it was us men who couldn't admit when we were wrong. Women are way worse.

 

[umina panther]

A man will admit he's been stubborn. A woman won't which says it all

 

[Jobdog]

A man will admit he's been stubborn. A woman won't which says it all

This.

 

[Dani]

I am an expert at stubborn.

 

[Rebel]

Which do you peeps think is better...When having an argument, do you guys thinks its better to

* Get reeeally pissed off and say everything (Even mean stuff) and then have it off your chest and quickly be over it even if silly things were said, (And then just ignore things that you thought were mean and get over them)
*Sit there and talk things through which might take a while, but you don't end up saying anything mean (Because you do it calmly, etc)

 

[sensesmaybenumbed]

Talk it through - don't go to bed angry!

 

[Dani]

My ex went through my computer files one day (first mistake)
He found a photo of my friend and her boyfriend that she'd sent me. He thought it was me (don't even know how)

3 or so months later we had a fight and he bought it up then. So he'd stewed over it amd got more angry when he didn't need to. Idiot.

 

[Drew-Sta]

Second is always best, but be aware women don't always operate like that. I'm the hyper logical / rational in my marriage, but wifey is emotional / feelings based. The thing for me to remember is that its easy to sit and talk if that's what is needed; sometimes its more about listening to her blow up and cop it on the chin as its her emotions then work out for myself what she's upset about and ensure I apologise for the right thing.

The talking through / logical change usually happens after she's gotten angry and I've worked things out. But each relationship is different.