OT The scary thing is that we haven't made very much progress in producing energy (or pretty much anything) that doesn't involve the use of oil or petroleum products. I can see us preserving oil in the near future as the only material we can use to make plastics which we need for solar power, but even then it will eventually run out. Unless an alternative to oil products is eventually found, we will be back to forges and steam power!
Back on topic(ish).
I have first hand experience of being accused of sexual abuse for absolutely no reason, and it is devastating, and there are few avenues for support. The person who accused me, who readily acknowledges they were wrong but doesn't at all accept the harm it did to me, was very unstable at the time, and I'm sure they wouldn't have done it if they were in their right mind. They have been legitimately abused in the past, and they were hypersensitive and having a psychotic break at the time, so I don't hold it against them.
But it is possible that in the Cartwright case we are discussing, that both Cartwright and his ex-partner/dalliance believe they are in the right, without either trying to be horrid to each other, but maybe not being able to see the other's point of view. It is a much more common failing in human relationships than people deliberately trying to abuse each other.
