Milhouse20XX
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If you're a woman reading this topic, READ IT CAREFULLY and for Gods sake, TRY to understand the point I'm trying to make.
If you're a guy, explain this to as many women as you can even if they try to give you some lame, boring "womans perspective" on this evil phrase in the english language.
On the other hand, if you're a moderator, please don't delete this topic as I'm doing a service for teh Vesti.
Guys do not, I repeat, DO NOT like to be told "I don't want to ruin our friendship" as a way of turning down their romantic advances. "I don't want to ruin our friendship" is the most insulting and pathetic thing you can say to a guy when you're rejecting them, not to mention extremely GUTLESS because as a woman,the proves you don't have the nerve to be honest so instead hide behind some sugar-coated, lameass excuse.
For guys, a relationship is a friendship that develops into a closer, more intimate bond. By saying "I don't want to ruin our friendship" you're basically saying "I don't think enough of them as a person to explore the opportunity of becoming closer with you"
To the women who have said this phrase (And I'm sure it's been on many occasions) I wish EVERY misfortune and curse upon your future relationships (And may God have mercy on the poor souls who have the misfortune to date you). To those that haven't said "I don't want to ruin our friendhip" (And I'm really not expecting a lot of you) I hope I've explained myself in a way you all can understand.
Apart from that, I wish you all a good day
If you're a guy, explain this to as many women as you can even if they try to give you some lame, boring "womans perspective" on this evil phrase in the english language.
On the other hand, if you're a moderator, please don't delete this topic as I'm doing a service for teh Vesti.
Guys do not, I repeat, DO NOT like to be told "I don't want to ruin our friendship" as a way of turning down their romantic advances. "I don't want to ruin our friendship" is the most insulting and pathetic thing you can say to a guy when you're rejecting them, not to mention extremely GUTLESS because as a woman,the proves you don't have the nerve to be honest so instead hide behind some sugar-coated, lameass excuse.
For guys, a relationship is a friendship that develops into a closer, more intimate bond. By saying "I don't want to ruin our friendship" you're basically saying "I don't think enough of them as a person to explore the opportunity of becoming closer with you"
To the women who have said this phrase (And I'm sure it's been on many occasions) I wish EVERY misfortune and curse upon your future relationships (And may God have mercy on the poor souls who have the misfortune to date you). To those that haven't said "I don't want to ruin our friendhip" (And I'm really not expecting a lot of you) I hope I've explained myself in a way you all can understand.
Apart from that, I wish you all a good day