My dilemma

[RK]

you put it so nicely Raider_69

 

[nöyd]

Get with her..go defacto...knock up a couple of kids...get the baby bonus and buy yourself a PS3.

Man makes a reasonable argument...

 

[Eelementary]

I was in a simialr situation (she was 17 when she had her son).

She was a great person, but her ex kept coming back into the picture (he was some drop-kick lowlife).

Needless to say, the threats of violence to me, her and my family just made me grow tired of it.

 

[God-King Dean]

I was in a simialr situation (she was 17 when she had her son).

She was a great person, but her ex kept coming back into the picture (he was some drop-kick lowlife).

Needless to say, the threats of violence to me, her and my family just made me grow tired of it.

This is what I'm concerned about. She said her kids father was beating her up for a couple of years. This shows self-esteem issues, & girls with these issues have a tendancy to go back their abusive relationships.

 

[[furrycat]]

Just because she has had a kid doesn't mean she is 'good' in bed... That is like saying a rape victim would be good.

 

[[furrycat]]

pending how long ago she had the kid, rooting her could be like throwing a Frankfurt down a hall way

LOL! :lol:

 

[Eelementary]

This is what I'm concerned about. She said her kids father was beating her up for a couple of years. This shows self-esteem issues, & girls with these issues have a tendancy to go back their abusive relationships.

Yeah, that's a tricky one.

I mean, they're not always in that scenario, obviously.

But they often can be...

The problem is that, if you do get involved with her, you may have to fight her battles for her, so to speak.

Her ex may come back into the picture and you'll have a whole new mess in your hands.

 

[The Camden Leisure Pirate]

Dude, your 19 years old........

How hard are relationships with out there being a third person.

Are you ready for that commitment?

I'm 22 and I can't even imagine being involved with a MUM.........A MUM!!!!

 

[newtownbluebags]

It's a big call @ 19.......lifes for livin from memory??? ;-)

 

[PantherMel]

This is a very educating thread

 

[newtownbluebags]

I for one hold a Diploma of bullsh*t from the University of Crap! making me an eminently educated individual......I think...........?

 

[PantherMel]

I figured that newtown

 

[newtownbluebags]

Thanks...............

 

[God-King Dean]

I think my main problem is I KNOW it won't last. I'm never going to look after another mans kid, yet I still wanna see how it goes.

 

[An41]

put it in her bum, end

 

[[furrycat]]

:lol:

 

[God-King Dean]

:lol: