Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) can impact all areas of life, since symptoms are present during work and at home. It can be hard for others to tolerate the symptoms of NPD, which can mean the sufferer becomes isolated.
Key symptoms include:
- inability to listen to others
- fantasising about power, beauty and success
- exaggerating achievements and abilities
- superiority, specifically towards people perceived as ‘lower’ in status
- lack of awareness regarding others
- increased risk of using drugs and alcohol
- social withdrawal
- inflated sense of entitlement
- obsession with class and status
- exploiting others for personal gain
- lacking empathy, especially for perceived weaknesses
- strong desire for control over relationships
- envy for those perceived as being of a higher status
- inability to admit wrongdoing
- distant, practical manner in regards to personal relationships
- believing that others are envious of them
- severe anger if orders or directions are not followed by others
- can ‘write off’ friends permanently over small or imagined issues
- great pride in the accomplishments of children or family
- expecting constant praise and recognition for achievements
- unrealistic goal setting
- difficulty maintaining healthy relationships
- feeling hurt and rejected easily.
People with NPD may have feelings of deep insecurity beneath an arrogant exterior. With effective treatment, it is possible for people to learn to change their behaviours and have more positive relationships.
