Life shouldn't be hard? Life is hard. It shouldn't be all encompassing, but nor should it be consistently joyous. My life is hard. But it's wonderful. I have to drag my arse into exercise for 40mins a day that I'd rather not do. I love my job, but aspects of it are arduous. I adore my kids, but F me they're hard and we choose to parent the hard way - ie no screens, lots of learning, patience etc. I'm setting myself up for the future by doing things like renovating on my weekends, saving money etc. All that stuff is hard work. But I'm always aware it's worth it.
Again, I'm very aware that a lot of athletes face mental health issues. I was OK with the Simone Bilas stuff after talking to gymnasts who said it's a scary way to be when you're not mentally right in their sport. Naomi Osaka is clearly going through some issues too. And she is absolutely right to step away from the game if it's overwhelming. I dunno, I see this so often as a teacher. These young people think that hardship is a time to stop. That hardship = mental illness. Teaching in lockdown has been such an eye-opener for me. There seems to be a range of excuses as to why these kids can't do something.