If you could just admit that your were originally talking about his playing ability, this would all be over... But no, you just say you meant something else, which given the context, delivery and wording of your original post, was a complete and utter lie.
Jane, the fact you blame everyone else for these little outbursts, indicates YOU are in fact something of a narcissist. Look the word up.
We can't all be out to get you Jane, and the only common denominator in all of these arguments, is you.
Some advice: Stop lying about your original point in posts. It's annoying, childish and causes ridiculous arguments (I am guilty of engaging in these) that just derail the thread. Be a grown up, and own what you say. Don't try to change it to something else because someone has challenged it.