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Stapo loses his mum

Frenzy.

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*ALL the Cronulla Sharks players sat quietly as they listened to Tracey Bevan talk fondly about her lost friend, Jane McGrath, and told them how she inspired a foundation to fund breast care nurses in Australia before she died.

Only one player was missing from the group.

Bevan went on to explain the seriousness of detecting early signs of breast cancer, and then she and other McGrath Foundation members went into detail.

One of the Sharks’ new corporate partners and charities, the foundation spokeswoman knew the players and officials had wives, partners, mothers, sisters, friends and fans.

They left nothing out.

Less than an hour after finishing training, still carrying ice wraps for injuries sustained in Sunday’s exciting but bruising extra time win over Newcastle, players were being warned what could kill their loved ones.

And what could save them.

Big prop Ben Ross, a husband and new dad, proudly displayed a new pink jersey that all the players will wear for next week’s Harvey Norman Women in League round, where Sharks players will be joined by the Dragons, Cowboys, Panthers, Bulldogs and Warriors in club activities and game-day celebrations.

It will be a celebration of women, their loved ones and their fans.

Sharks players were then split up into small groups to contest a ‘‘bust the myth’’ questionnaire. It brought some levity to a serious subject; some knew more than others.

But some players also knew exactly why one of their own, winger Nathan Stapleton, couldn’t be with them.

Why he had not been available for their first win in five games last Sunday, and why he won’t be there for the Sharks-Wests Tigers match tomorrow night at Allianz Stadium.

Son of a battling country family from the small NSW country town of Deepwater whose parents worked odd station-hand jobs to support their three sons, Stapleton stayed with Marie Withers when he came to the Sharks five years ago as a promising 17-year-old.

‘‘He religiously sent back money to his mother to buy her a washing machine, a stove *— even when he wasn’t playing, recovering from three knee reconstructions,’’ said Mrs Withers, his house-mother.

‘‘She’d come to watch him, only after she’d saved enough money.’’

One of those women in league, and one of the Sharks’ strongest fans, Debbie Stapleton died from cancer at Armidale Hospital on Tuesday afternoon — about the same time the players were listening to the McGrath Foundation’s talk.

Nathan and his family were beside her.

Sharks players will wear black armbands - in memory of Debbie Stapleton — for the West Tigers clash tomorrow night.


http://www.theleader.com.au/story/1...s-hard-sharks-mates-mourn-another-loss/?cs=12
 

Qld-Sharkie

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After going through the "experience" with my wife & seeing all the women, even some as young as early 20's suffer with cancer...& what this does to them in the long term, I have a new found respect for the "Pink" weekend. I hope the jerseys/shorts/socks/boots are auctioned off as its a perfect chance for me to give back to a worthy cause & get something associated with the sharks.
My thoughts are with Stapo...
 

Mr Angry

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Very sad for Nathan, tough to lose your mum.

Interesting, seems to suggest he was not dropped and Feki only got a run due to this.

There I was thinking Flanno made an unforced changed.

My observation of Flanno is he has a side in mind, only injury or suspension change that side the entire season, form does not seem to count.
 

Frenzy.

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Very sad for Nathan, tough to lose your mum.

Interesting, seems to suggest he was not dropped and Feki only got a run due to this.

There I was thinking Flanno made an unforced changed.

My observation of Flanno is he has a side in mind, only injury or suspension change that side the entire season, form does not seem to count.

You need to read my posts more carefully then :)
 
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RIP.. That's gotta be tough.. Lucky my mum pulled thru this ok a out 20 years ago, her mum 20 years before that. Thoughts are with the Stapleton family
 

Quigs

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Yes our sympathies are with Stapo and his family.

It's a prick of a thing that farkkkenn cancer and doesn't give a rats who it effects.

I try an do my little bit to help. We all should if we can.
 

snoozer

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rip mrs stapler.

merkin of a thing this cancer. lost my brother and stepfather in the last year to it.
 
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Rip Mrs Stapo, Sympathies to her Family .Hope the Game raises plenty for Cancer research Its a good cause anytime.
 

TheOx

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I'll be just up the road from him on Mothers Day in Tenterfield. I'll be giving the Stapo's a thought for sure. Cancer. Curse of our age.
 

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