Superthread LIV - Honouring the A-League

[Monk]

I disagree. There is no proper way to handle that. If you are that weak that you make a drunken mistake once, you will make the same mistake again. What are you meant to do, put a drinking ban on someone to prevent them from further 'mistakes'. I have been absolutely wasted with guys hitting on me, and it NEVER entered my head as an option, because I AM MARRIED. It should mean something, but these days, marriage doesn't seem to mean shit.

Alba wins

 

[the_flight_of_the_magpie]

Mark my words the world will end it and will be Japans fault

 

[Alba]

Mark my words the world will end it and will be Japans fault

Is it strange that I read that using my Dad's voice in my head!

 

[Bazal]

I disagree. There is no proper way to handle that. If you are that weak that you make a drunken mistake once, you will make the same mistake again. What are you meant to do, put a drinking ban on someone to prevent them from further 'mistakes'. I have been absolutely wasted with guys hitting on me, and it NEVER entered my head as an option, because I AM MARRIED. It should mean something, but these days, marriage doesn't seem to mean shit.

I have a weird view on sex though. Sometimes sex is just sex...once is forgivable, for me, if the other party is honest about it.

 

[Dani]

I disagree. There is no proper way to handle that. If you are that weak that you make a drunken mistake once, you will make the same mistake again. What are you meant to do, put a drinking ban on someone to prevent them from further 'mistakes'. I have been absolutely wasted with guys hitting on me, and it NEVER entered my head as an option, because I AM MARRIED. It should mean something, but these days, marriage doesn't seem to mean shit.

+1

 

[Dani]

Trust means everything to me. Especially given my history with guys.

No trust = no me.

 

[Alba]

I have a weird view on sex though. Sometimes sex is just sex...once is forgivable, for me, if the other party is honest about it.

You're right. Sometimes sex is just sex. But if you're in a committed relationship, you shouldn't be having sex with anyone that is not your partner. If you want to have meaningless sex just because, be single.

 

[Alba]

Trust means everything to me. Especially given my history with guys.

No trust = no me.

It is a very hard thing to get back, once broken.

 

[Dani]

And has to be earnt.

 

[Alba]

Over the years, I have become very wary of humankind. I used to trust first until broken, then you're wiped. Now, I find it very hard to trust anyone at all. I hate that I feel this way, but I feel like if you trust people, that gives them the power to hurt you. More often than not, they will. I hate people. I am going to be a dog lady.

 

[umina panther]

Start of this year I traveled Europe staying in backpackers for a month before my girlfriend got there. You have no idea how many girls I turned down and saying no thanks I have a girl only made them chase harder. Girls= evil!!!!

 

[Dani]

Over the years, I have become very wary of humankind. I used to trust first until broken, then you're wiped. Now, I find it very hard to trust anyone at all. I hate that I feel this way, but I feel like if you trust people, that gives them the power to hurt you. More often than not, they will. I hate people. I am going to be a dog lady.

Same. Except cat. I'm already well on my way...

 

[Alba]

Start of this year I traveled Europe staying in backpackers for a month before my girlfriend got there. You have no idea how many girls I turned down and saying no thanks I have a girl only made them chase harder. Girls evil!!!!

Seriously! Girls are conniving c***s. A wedding ring to a lot of girls is like a f***ing aphrodisiac.

 

[Bazal]

You're right. Sometimes sex is just sex. But if you're in a committed relationship, you shouldn't be having sex with anyone that is not your partner. If you want to have meaningless sex just because, be single.

I agree, and I wouldn't and haven't ever done it no matter how tempted I've been. But I think alcohol and emotion affects everyone differently. When I was a lot younger, a girlfriend and I had a ridiculous fight, just atomic. She went out, got drunk, and wound up going home with some guy. She was shattered, she came to me just a mess and confessed and I eventually forgave her...maybe I'm a knuckle head but I appreciated that she was honest and obviously hated herself for it. If she'd kept it from me and I found it, it would have been over....

 

[Dragon2010]

I tust no one really except my dad. I can rely on others, but that's different. But that's for a very shaky and unstable up bringing filled with many issues and problems. It's sad. One day I will have to trust others but for now that's the way I am. Relationships are meant to be between two people and with the generation these days that's fast disappearing as morales and decency is thrown out the window. I once had a girl I know try to get with me when she still had a bf and I refused and told her no. Odd thing was, she advanced for a really weird reason. Not bf related but more about me.

I'm one where I'm in a relationship, that's it- that's the person I'm with. I know plenty of guys (And girls) who are in them and still sleep around (Or visit brothels). After having kown my mum did it, and the damage it caused to my dad and the whole family (Me included) I could never do it and would have a low opinion of someone whom did.

 

[Bazal]

Over the years, I have become very wary of humankind. I used to trust first until broken, then you're wiped. Now, I find it very hard to trust anyone at all. I hate that I feel this way, but I feel like if you trust people, that gives them the power to hurt you. More often than not, they will. I hate people. I am going to be a dog lady.

I don't trust easily...and when I do people seem to f**k me...sigh

 

[Dani]

I don't trust easily...and when I do people seem to f**k me...sigh

You can trust me

 

[umina panther]

I'll admit when I was single if a girl had a boyfriend but I didn't know him she was fair game

 

[Alba]

I don't trust easily...and when I do people seem to f**k me...sigh

werd ... hence my hatred for humans

 

[Alba]

I'll admit when I was single if a girl had a boyfriend but I didn't know him she was fair game

It's not your responsibility to take the high ground if someone is in a relationship, it's theirs.