Fair enough. I am not as well informed on the internal mechanisms of the club and its supporters so I am able to defer your judgement. I am intrigued by why Bears supporters wouldn’t support the club in a new location - it seems crazy to me particularly if it is their only shot of getting in (which it should be btw)
Whatever the decision may be though, there needs to be some sort of finality to this nebulous and unproductive situation which has been allowed to fester for much too long a time
That's an extremely complex question, that's answer I not only find hard to articulate (you kind of have to have experience it to truly understand it), but that I'm not sure I can answer satisfactorily in a short post. The answer would also be slightly different for each person if they were honest in answering the question as well. Anyway keep all that in mind when you read my answer.
Most old Bears fans have a nostalgia driven idealised idea of what the Bears coming back to the NRL would actually entail. That idea is, generally speaking, totally ignorant of the realities of running a modern NRL club and is totally unrealistic. In other words, in their heads the Bears coming back would mean recapturing a place, time, and feeling (for lack of a better word) that is long past and bringing it to the present, but that is impossible and the reality of the Bears return failing to live up to their expectations would be extremely disappointing for a lot of old Bears fans.
So that would be an issue before we even start talking about the club being the e.g. Perth Bears, and existing as a relocated club that rarely play games at NS Oval.
But speaking directly to why they wouldn't accept a relocated club, well it's for a lot of the same reasons that the majority of fans of any club wouldn't accept a relocation of their club. For a lot of people being a member of a club is deeply connected to where you and that club are from, about belonging to a tribe and that tribe leaving you behind for greener pastures can be seen a betrayal, etc, etc, you get the general idea.
If you add all those factors together, then add the simple fact of 20 years of natural attrition of the Bears fan base and their simply isn't that many Bears fans of the sort whom would be active supporters left anymore. Let's put it this way; if there was great demand for a Bears NRL team then their attendance in the NSW Cup would be way better than it has been historically.
Lots of Bears fans like to say things like 'if only the club had been allowed to relocate to Gosford everything would have been fine'. Here's the thing though; that is said totally in hindsight, and those Bears fans totally forget/ignore the general outrage to the planned relocation, and had often themselves claimed at the time that they were going to abandon the club once the relocation was complete. I see no reason why after the initial honey moon period of Bears being back had wore off, and most of them had realised that the Bears are never, ever, coming back to NS fulltime, that those same attitudes wouldn't grow again within the old fanbase.
Anyway I'm starting to ramble now, so I'll leave it there.
BTW, just to make it absolutely clear, I'm not saying that there're no Bears fans that would accept a relocated new version of the club.
There is definitely a group of hardcore true believer NS fans, whom don't care how or why, they just want their team back in the NRL and would follow them to the best of their abilities no matter the circumstances. However, IMO based on my interactions with other Bears fans, the size of that group is
massively overstated when discussion about the Bears coming back come up.