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Gronk

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Don't equate SSM with gender issues. I'm pro SSM, but against the idea that gender is separate from sex and don't agree with pronouns and the idea that gender is an undefined, unquantifiable thing. Its childish and regressive.
The public’s sentiment that was extracted from the SSM debate seemed to reflect a desire for fairness and the principle of letting people live their lives without undue interference. Many saw it as an issue of equality, rather than a broader challenge to societal norms.

Bringing up pronouns right now is as unhelpful as bringing up people who think they are cats.
 

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Don't equate SSM with gender issues. I'm pro SSM, but against the idea that gender is separate from sex and don't agree with pronouns and the idea that gender is an undefined, unquantifiable thing. Its childish and regressive.

Regressing to what? When trans people were put in asylums? Shock therapy?

Nobody is forcing you to say anything. You can just call them by their name.
 

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You shouldn't paint people who don't believe in unlimited genders as uncaring.
The uncaring are the vocal minority who make life extremely difficult for queer people who are finding life tough enough.

Normalising the vilification and labelling those who defend as woke so as to silence them is opposite day of what you are seeking.

Leave them alone. They are not breaking any laws. They are not hurting anyone. There are literally 1,000 more important things in our society that need to be dealt with ahead of this.

The irony of this topic is that the very people who seek to be vocal on this topic are those who constantly rebuke others with the phrase "don't tell me what to do or how to think".
 

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The public’s sentiment that was extracted from the SSM debate seemed to reflect a desire for fairness and the principle of letting people live their lives without undue interference. Many saw it as an issue of equality, rather than a broader challenge to societal norms.

Bringing up pronouns right now is as unhelpful as bringing up people who think they are cats.
Agree with everything in your first paragraph. Support equal rights. I have a brother in law that used to be my sister in law. He is still much loved and supported.

Your last sentence about pronouns says everything and we will never agree. You don't think its an issue. I think its stupid and has nothing to do with equality. Lets leave it there.
 

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Regressing to what? When trans people were put in asylums? Shock therapy?

Nobody is forcing you to say anything. You can just call them by their name.
Regressing to a place where facts don't matter and fantasy and make-believe is accepted without question.

My only issue is with pronouns. I fully support the right for a male to identify as female and vice versa.
 

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Regressing to a place where facts don't matter and fantasy and make-believe is accepted without question.

My only issue is with pronouns. I fully support the right for a male to identify as female and vice versa.

One could make the same argument for religion.

Again, you don;'t have to use xi xir or w/e tf (that is a tiny minority), you can use their name

Or are you arguing calling a trans person by he or her?
 

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One could make the same argument for religion.

Again, you don;'t have to use xi xir or w/e tf (that is a tiny minority), you can use their name

Or are you arguing calling a trans person by he or her?
Agree. I am not religious either but thankfully no-one insists that you should believe in a god.

I’m suggesting that it is silly for anyone to make up pronouns, insist on people using them and then cry ‘discrimination’ if people can’t remember or refuse to play their game.

I don’t go out of my way to offend someone by calling them he or her if they don’t identify that way. I typically just use their names as you suggest.
 

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Agree. I am not religious either but thankfully no-one insists that you should believe in a god.

I’m suggesting that it is silly for anyone to make up pronouns, insist on people using them and then cry ‘discrimination’ if people can’t remember or refuse to play their game.

I don’t go out of my way to offend someone by calling them he or her if they don’t identify that way. I typically just use their names as you suggest.

I don't think anyone is making up pronouns. It's a fringe lunatic % in our community.
 

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The public’s sentiment that was extracted from the SSM debate seemed to reflect a desire for fairness and the principle of letting people live their lives without undue interference. Many saw it as an issue of equality, rather than a broader challenge to societal norms.

Bringing up pronouns right now is as unhelpful as bringing up people who think they are cats.
Pronouns are absolutely an example of where things overstep equality (which is what SSM rectified). The problem with pronouns is that they require forced participation in what is seen as either delusion or sexual fetish by the 'transphobic' community. Somewhere between requiring atheists to perform the eucharist/salat or demanding merkins sit quietly while someone masturbates at the desk next to them.
 

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I don't think anyone is making up pronouns. It's a fringe lunatic % in our community.
I stopped listening to them with them/they. It’s f**king ridiculous. Just choose a biological gender, FFS even if you have to tuck it under ‘Goodbye Horses’ style.
 

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I don’t go out of my way to offend someone by calling them he or her if they don’t identify that way. I typically just use their names as you suggest.
Which is just fine. A compromise as it were. Unlike people like Elon Musk who deadnames his trans daughter to the cheers of the phobes or Jordan Peterson who repeats often that he will use what he thinks is the correct pronoun like it's a badge of honour to be a prick.
 

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Pronouns are absolutely an example of where things overstep equality (which is what SSM rectified). The problem with pronouns is that they require forced participation in what is seen as either delusion or sexual fetish by the 'transphobic' community. Somewhere between requiring atheists to perform the eucharist/salat or demanding merkins sit quietly while someone masturbates at the desk next to them.
You're clutching at your peals here. Dabbling in unnecessary exaggeration over a topic that hardly impacts anyone ever.
 

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Pronouns are absolutely an example of where things overstep equality (which is what SSM rectified). The problem with pronouns is that they require forced participation in what is seen as either delusion or sexual fetish by the 'transphobic' community. Somewhere between requiring atheists to perform the eucharist/salat or demanding merkins sit quietly while someone masturbates at the desk next to them.

what the.. who is demanding that?
 

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I stopped listening to them with them/they. It’s f**king ridiculous. Just choose a biological gender, FFS even if you have to tuck it under ‘Goodbye Horses’ style.

They use they/them because they are non binary or gender fluid. I'm not sure why it's an issue?
 

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Which is just fine. A compromise as it were. Unlike people like Elon Musk who deadnames his trans daughter to the cheers of the phobes or Jordan Peterson who repeats often that he will use what he thinks is the correct pronoun like it's a badge of honour to be a prick.

he's a deadbeat dad
 

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