Hi Rabbitoad,
I am trying to learn a bit about psychology but am genuinely confused by some of your posts. I will give you a couple of examples and hopefully you can explain them for me.
Before we get into this, I would first like to state I am not asking these questions because I feel sorry for Rabbits20. He is a grown man and has made his own bed. You could make an argument that I am coming in defending Curns13, as the 2 posts of yours that I am about to quote are both responses to him. However, I would say that from what I have read Curns13 is also a grown man and seems to be able to defend himself quite well.
I believe I have 2 reasons for discussing this, and I'm sure that you will correct me if I'm wrong. Firstly, as stated in my previous post I love a bit of self flagellation. Secondly, I would love for this forum to be a better place for all of us on here and not bogged down with so much petty shit. You are definitely not the only offender here IMHO.
I realise Curns13, called you an arsehole and a dickhead, (maybe more I can't remember). However I could genuinely agree with him that I thought he called you this because he thought you were being an arsehole and a dickhead, not because he was feeling sorry for Rabbits20.
The thing that I am unclear of, and my question for you is :
If Curns13 is " letting his emotions get the better of him and resorting to childish name calling" by calling you an arsehole and a dickhead, Are you letting your emotions get the better of you by resorting to childish name calling, when you call Rabbits20 Fletch in every second post?
If Curns13's childish insult's give him away, do your childish insults also give you away as "desperately trying not to admit you're upset." ?
I will state that I don't have a Masters in Psychology and am just keen to learn as I am confused. Because it does seem to me that a lot of the things that you accuse others of on here, seem to apply to you also.
Anyway, I am keen to hear your response on this. As to me it seems that although you are very quick to analyse others motives or shortcomings on here, you seem to be completely unaware that IMHO you are doing the exactly same thing.
Cheers Stan.