It's the lack of remorse that people don't like about May. Read all the article about the incident about it with quotes by May and it's him going on about how much, he hurt, how embarrassed he was, how ashamed he was to explain the situation to his little sister, etc and nobody f**king cares about the peruptetor over the victims. Out of the two girls he apologized to one of them in that text, he doesn't talk about the victims, about why he's sorry about what he did for the girls' sake. It's always how I let my team mates down, I let everyone who believed in me down, I let my family down, etc. About how shit the year where was stood down watching the team lose in 2019 was for him, etc. Nobody cares or sympathizes with someone getting the consequences of their own actions.
There was one article May was going on about himself and the one mention of the girls the actual victims was by Gus. It's all the same shit all his talk covering his sextape or the consequences of it.
That attitude is why people hate May, it's not what he did. That's why people who have been convicted of crimes still playing Tetevano or Lodge isn't the same and why May should stay f**ked off. Maybe Lodge is the same and he's just smart enough to give lip service (which doesn't say much for the intelligence of May) but I'm still willing to give him more slack than May who can just f**k off to cash converters to sell his ring.