I was at both of those terrible losses in 2001 as well. The loss against Parra was deflating, given that we had a reasonably good 2000 season and that there was an optimistic outlook for 2001.
The worse was yet to come in round 1 2002 when Parra annihilated us 64-6 at Parra Stadium. I was there for that game and the walk from the stadium back to where my car was parked in the Parra CBD was harrowing, being dressed up in my Panthers gear and all and being harassed by Eels supporters.
Fortunately, there is a happy ending as this leadto what was one of my favourite Penrith memories and it was the mother of all payback games when Penrith played Parra almost two years later after the 2002 64-6 debacle when we smashed them 40-22 to not only win the match, but to claim the JJ Giltinen Shield and the Minor Premiership!!