I can't help but laugh at this whole thing. Really, why even care? I assume that most members of either forum have never met each other, and, if that is the case, why get so emotional about things? I've just read that I am "absolutely loathed" by a whole group of people who I know nothing about, and, to be frank, couldn't give a shit about (you've got to love the irony). It doesn't make much sense to me.
I suggest that we just post our messages, and, for those involved, run the website, and forget about all the politics. If people on the other site want make an issue of it, just ignore them. Let them upset themselves. We're better off just doing our own thing, because we've got a great little discussion group here.
Having said all that, I've got to admit thatit's been pretty good entertainment watching all these people getting riled up.