Me too. But I`ve been wondering - and someone on here mentioned it recently - if Cayless may have been a bit of a 'soft' captain. Too much the nice guy. And has that contributed to Parramatta`s 'culture' of not being hard-nosed enough? We`ll see, I guess, but when you look at our forwards now - Shackleton, Mannah, Webb, maybe Maitua, Smith when he`s fired up, Moi Moi - man, we could have the most devestating pack in the game!
Perhaps. But one scenario pops to my mind that showed how much respect Cayless had:
a few years ago we were playing at Parra and the opposition had just scored. Riddell got into a slanging match with another Eel. It was quite heated. All Caylo did was raise his arm and everyone shut up.
He wasn't an aggressive captain, but he led by example - he never shirked the hard work, and he always gave 100%. Blokes like Hindy and Burty, themselves legends of this club, have nothing but great things to say about the man.
TBH I think the problem this team has had for a decade now is not in the captaincy ranks, but the overall attitudes that were instilled during Brain Smith's reign (and I love the work Brian did for us; he really put us in a good position for the future). In the 2001 Grand Final, which we SHOULD have won but couldn't, I don't think we were prepared properly. And ever since then, the side has had this "soft underbelly" to them where they seem to crumble at weird moments. Last year's GF was a perfect example - we were down at half-time, Eric Grothe scores a SENSATIONAL try of power and strength to get us right back in the game...And we give up a simple try that took away all that momentum we had gained.
Don't get me wrong - I adore this team, and will do so forever. But I get frustrated watching "professional" teams like Melbourne (ignoring the fact they're cheats) and St. George and Brisbane. They rarely choke IMO. And they go about their business with genuine precision.
On the flipside we have the Eels...Brilliant one week, crap the next; one moment's brilliance followed by a massive lapse.
I know many people who openly said that once Caylo retired, and some others such as Hindy and Burty (ie: remainders from the 2001 GF), that that "soft underbelly" mentality would go with them and we could start afresh. I, myself, am not convinced. I think this goes deeper than that.
But IMO the psychological scars of the 2001 GF wee never completely healed.