f**ks sake man, are you looking for a girlfriend or a wife?
If you want a wife, there's websites that can help.
Just put the hard word on her, you know "Lets go eat at a restaurant and then we'll go back to your place for a root, cos my place isn't so flash and I hate doing laundry"
It'll be fine.
You'll root a heap early on and then you'll have the negotiations period where you learn about all the little things that utterly f**k you off so intensely. Get through that and it's f**king easy sailing, as you'll begin to like those little quirks in each other and start rooting again. Then you get married and have a kid or two, stop rooting, get pissed at each other and then realise you're trapped because you can't afford the divorce bullshit, so you compromise (usually one does night shift and the other doesn't)
That's what most average useless people do. Me, I make the right decision straight away and live happily ever after with an awesome wife.