Ask LU - The relationship advice thread II

[butchmcdick]

We're out there. But I think we get put in the friend bin

Been there

There is nothing worse than crushing on a chick being the nice guy/friend only for her to bang some bogan who is a total douche, who then treats her like shit and her to be all " Why can't I meet nice guys "

 

[Dragon2010]

- Friend bin
- Afraid, trust issues
- Gay
- They don't go out

 

[IanG]

Been there

There is nothing worse than crushing on a chick being the nice guy/friend only for her to bang some bogan who is a total douche, who then treats her like shit and her to be all " Why can't I meet nice guys "

I hear ya' dude

 

[redvforlife]

Been there

There is nothing worse than crushing on a chick being the nice guy/friend only for her to bang some bogan who is a total douche, who then treats her like shit and her to be all " Why can't I meet nice guys "

that happens to chicks too. And it used to piss me off every time.

 

[Cliffhanger]

I have a massive crush on a guy who has a girlfriend. I don't know why I like him, we're really a like in a bad way (both egotistical, over confident etc), but he's smart and I wanna bang him. I don't want to be in a relationship with him, it would be awful, we'd just fight all the time.

 

[dogslife]

Start by suggesting a threesome, and then you can get intimate alone down the track.

Baby steps

 

[Cliffhanger]

I think it's the kind of thing where you just want to sleep with the person once to get it out of your system.

 

[Apey]

I think it's the kind of thing where you just want to sleep with the person once to get it out of your system.

I think if you explain it to his girlfriend like that she'd understand.

 

[dogslife]

Tell her she can watch

 

[IanG]

Don't go there unless you wanna pick a catfight

 

[Cliffhanger]

I wouldn't do him while he had a girlfriend, unless he made the move, I don't know his girlfriend, so protecting her feelings isn't my responsibility.

 

[Springs]

Not hurting people is everyone's responsibility, as a human. It's the thinking of 'someone else getting hurt doesn't matter as long as it doesn't affect me' that makes the world so shit in the first place.

 

[butchmcdick]

I have a massive crush on a guy who has a girlfriend. I don't know why I like him, we're really a like in a bad way (both egotistical, over confident etc), but he's smart and I wanna bang him. I don't want to be in a relationship with him, it would be awful, we'd just fight all the time.

If you just want to bang him ok then bang him

If you want to bang him and then be all " hey let's have a relationship, I have developed feelings for u etc etc " then it all end in tears.

Either way don't sweat it. The vag wants what the vag wants

 

[Dani]

:lol: :lol:

 

[Cliffhanger]

Not hurting people is everyone's responsibility, as a human. It's the thinking of 'someone else getting hurt doesn't matter as long as it doesn't affect me' that makes the world so shit in the first place.

You need to lighten up and stop taking things so seriously.

Also, hurting people's feelings has little to do with why the world's so shit, most of the problems come back to somebody somewhere holding crazy nonsensical beliefs that weren't properly challenged until they realised their error. Whether it's the US believing that everyone is jealous of their power, Israelis believing they're the chosen people, Muslims taking things a little too literally.

 

[Cliffhanger]

If you just want to bang him ok then bang him

If you want to bang him and then be all " hey let's have a relationship, I have developed feelings for u etc etc " then it all end in tears.

Either way don't sweat it. The vag wants what the vag wants

Haha. If he was single, I would make a move, so I just have to find somebody else it wants.

 

[butchmcdick]

Haha. If he was single, I would make a move, so I just have to find somebody else it wants.

Fair enough cliff

As an aside have U seen the inbetweeners movie ?

There is a great line in it where this chick tells the lads it's alright boys kitty doesn't bite. Well no now she's been fed

Words to live by eh ladies

 

[deemac77]

Righto, this will be good...See how we go. Dunno why im turning to a forum for advice but here goes.

So im chillin at home on a lazy Saturday night, the misses is supposedly at home with her friend and kids just doin nothing.
Dont hear from her all night which is pretty unusual, anyways, send her a text Sunday morning to say hi. She ring back telling me shes on way back from Canberra cos shes been at one of them Hellfire, Dominatrix, sex den thingys. Ludicrous.
Now look i dont own the girl i know this, but i guess being together for nearly a year mean i dunno abit of mutual respect i guess.
So yeah im pretty pissed at the whole scenario. She reckons she went with 2 married couples and she slept on the lounge. Well...
I guess i should take her word for that, but anyone think she should of probably let me know about attending these events when yes, she does have a history of swinging and attending nudist resorts?

Or am i just being a bitch and blowing up over nothing?

 

[Drew-Sta]

Righto, this will be good...See how we go. Dunno why im turning to a forum for advice but here goes.

So im chillin at home on a lazy Saturday night, the misses is supposedly at home with her friend and kids just doin nothing.
Dont hear from her all night which is pretty unusual, anyways, send her a text Sunday morning to say hi. She ring back telling me shes on way back from Canberra cos shes been at one of them Hellfire, Dominatrix, sex den thingys. Ludicrous.
Now look i dont own the girl i know this, but i guess being together for nearly a year mean i dunno abit of mutual respect i guess.
So yeah im pretty pissed at the whole scenario. She reckons she went with 2 married couples and she slept on the lounge. Well...
I guess i should take her word for that, but anyone think she should of probably let me know about attending these events when yes, she does have a history of swinging and attending nudist resorts?

Or am i just being a bitch and blowing up over nothing?

Has she lied to you before?

 

[deemac77]

Has she lied to you before?

No, we have a pretty good relationship.

Shes older with 2 kids while i have none and her ex is a high ranking policeman.

Apart from all that we get along pretty good.

Im pretty shattered by the whole thing.