Ask LU - The Relationship Advice Thread III

[butchmcdick]

We still love ya cliffy

Also AG has started posting here again so there is that too

 

[AlwaysGreen]

I'm inda house.

But I'm a changed man. :C:

 

[Twizzle]

My instincts kept telling me something was wrong but, I believed what I wanted to. My guard is up but, not too high, I'm going to be more patient in the future, I think that was a huge downfall for me.

don't be too hard on yourself, its called being human

doesn't matter how old you are, you never stop learning

 

[Cliffhanger]

Yeah, I'm trying to learn to put aside my ego, so I can be easier on myself.

I'm sure AG will help keep it in check for me.

 

[umina panther]

The way he threatened you isn't right and if he does anything like that again get a few male friends to sort him out

 

[Twizzle]

Yeah, I'm trying to learn to put aside my ego, so I can be easier on myself.

I'm sure AG will help keep it in check for me.

I think ego is a good thing. You're a better person than that flake you were going out with.

AG seems to have dealt with his constipation issues and seems much less aggravated now days.

 

[Twizzle]

The way he threatened you isn't right and if he does anything like that again get a few male friends to sort him out

I still cant believe his feeble excuse.

I mean who expects to hook up with someone who has never had sex, or a relationship before.

Men are supposed to be studs and women are supposed to be virgins, so who the f**k are the men supposed to have sex with ?

one another ?

I never really understood that sexist attitude of some people.

 

[dogslife]

I mean who expects to hook up with someone who has never had sex, or a relationship before.

http://forums.leagueunlimited.com/member.php?u=37212

Thank me later girls

 

[Cliffhanger]

The next morning he sent me a text saying I had mental issues and he couldn't handle my craziness anymore and that he wishes he never met me. That was the last time he said anything to me.

He was abusive to staff when he came in because they wouldn't let his gf in for free too. He revealed his true colours and a week later cancelled his gym membership.

 

[Cliffhanger]

I still cant believe his feeble excuse.

I mean who expects to hook up with someone who has never had sex, or a relationship before.

Men are supposed to be studs and women are supposed to be virgins, so who the f**k are the men supposed to have sex with ?

one another ?

I never really understood that sexist attitude of some people.

I flat out said to him how can you attach one value to sex for yourself and expect different from your partner. He said he guesses he just had a traditional mentality. I told him he was being a hypocrite.

That was just an excuse because he didn't want to say the truth. He always promised me he'd never leave me for her etc.

One of my mattress has vowelled to punch him in the face if he ever comes across him again.

 

[Cliffhanger]

He's not that smart seriously, who brings their girlfriend to the gym where their ex who they've hidden from her works? Petty much every member of that gym had seen us together. what a moron.

 

[Dani]

Boys are smelly anyway.

 

[dogslife]

They're the worst

 

[Cliffhanger]

I want a man bit a boy. He was a manchild at best.

 

[AlwaysGreen]

Anyway he decided to bring her into my work so unroofed myself she was shocked.

One of my mattress has vowelled to punch him in the face if he ever comes across him again.

I want to know what this means.

 

[Cliffhanger]

I introduced myself to her. I really should read over what i post.

And the second was supposed to say one of my mates is going to punch him in the face if he sees him again

 

[Misanthrope]

Sounds like a royal piece of shit, Cliffy. His behaviour alone was despicable, but threatening you?

What a piece of shit.

 

[Cliffhanger]

I just look back and laugh at how foolish I was.

As much as he was a douche, if I was in a good place psychologically when I met him I would have f**ked him off not fallen into his trap. He's a twat for sure but, not any woman would have played into his hand.

So yeah I needed to take a good hard look at myself because I was more than a bit headf**ked.

 

[Apey]

Honestly I preferred the story when it was your mattress that was going to punch him in the face.

 

[bartman]

Good analysis cliffy. You're well on your way to learning from the experience, and being better prepared when the next opportunity arises.

We've all made mistakes in the past, if matters of the heart were easy then we'd all be sorted for life in high school, and there'd be one tenth the amount of songs in existence. Hang in there with the feelings, and best of luck.