My family has a RL background, but living in Melbourne, I prefer the passion of following AFL with friends / workmates.
Used to to follow Parra, then Steelers when they came in, then when they merged, got on Storm.
However, I have only been to the odd Storm games since they moved to the new stadium - too expensive for decent seats, and I preferred the atmosphere of Olympic Park.
In fact what had kept me interested in NRL was that going to games until very recently was so old school. The AFL got rid of all the suburban grounds in the 1980s, so I loved going to WIN, Parra, Olympic Park. Now the NRL is copying the AFL with everything, crowds will increase but playing in stadiums only 1/3 full is rubbish.
I would love it if NRL was as big here as AFL is in Sydney - it is hard to find anyone to go to matches with and there is no atmosphere at AAMI with 12K in a 31K stadium.
Now I watch NRL on TV, go to SOO, go to every Hawthorn AFL match.
No time for RU or soccer.