That's pretty much exactly what he said. He mentioned how the playing group all got together before the game and talked about what the Kiwi jersey meant to them, and that they were going out to remind Rangi exactly that. He then he said he lost it, he was worried about what people would say to his kids, and that he has to stop grubby play because he doesn't want to be a grub. He was practically crying and showed genuine remorse IMO. Actually, he also said he went to see Rangi in the sheds after the game, and cried whilst apologising.
I'm not defending his actions -- they were disgusting.
If he feels shit, so he bloody well should. Doesn't excuse it and still deserves some time out.
As for the rest of them standing in a circle saying what the jersey meant to them...Hmmm. Nothing in this tournament looked like an attempt to keep pride in the jersey. Lethargic, uninterested, headless chicken attack and defence, bad basic errors and total lack of discipline does not add up to pride in the jersey IMO. I expect better out of them. Had they lost- let's face it there were heaps out-but gave their all I'm sure we could stomach that. This year they have been poor. Very poor.