The Silverdale Phantom
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It’s kind of cruel on him to be training with the club because it might contribute to a false sense of reality for him.
He was there pretending or looking relaxed at training, happy even, which can’t really be the case.
It’s a big distraction for other players.
And my strongest argument is that he’s using time and resources another kid needs, that the club would be far better off investing in.
It’s not a good look for the club either.
I think he needs a lot of counselling, I think he should consider extending his charity and other community service work.
So if he pleads or is found guilty to any charge, he can muster up these good deeds to put to the court in his favour. He should do things he doesn’t have to do, make some sacrifices, do all that anger management and counselling stuff.
He should certainly look to help tradie and his family even, if he can, without admitting he’s done anything wrong but definitely if he pleads guilty.
It might not save him from a custodial if he’s guilty but it may be taken into account. Isn’t something to help him better than nothing?
But this running about laughing and training with the squad pretending he’s part of the side,
Giggling away pretending he is a fully licensed and authorised NRL player. That he is like everyone else at training.
He’s not.
Junior is engaged in acts of denial, so is the club. It’s unrealistic and it’s harmful.
And I was reflecting on what people said earlier about culture ( good and strong whatever) and it’s a bad culture if everyone is feeding him blue sky promises. She will be right mate. You’re part of the gang. That’s just not true. Right now, he’s a genuine liability and most of the civilised folk in the club think he’s really stupid or a bad person. For better or worse, for reasons true or false, no one trusts him anymore.
The players, the group he likes and wants to be close to, they can’t help him. You see that in the interviews.
Someone has to sit down with him and tell him what’s going on. A bit of honesty. Hook?
If he goes to gaol, he’s going to be asking himself who helped him and who didn’t. He’s going to ask himself if he did everything he could.
And he’s just a kid, he’s relying on others, he really needs the tough love and needs to be cut loose, given the good oil and adequate support.
He’s not facing a pacific cruise.
He was there pretending or looking relaxed at training, happy even, which can’t really be the case.
It’s a big distraction for other players.
And my strongest argument is that he’s using time and resources another kid needs, that the club would be far better off investing in.
It’s not a good look for the club either.
I think he needs a lot of counselling, I think he should consider extending his charity and other community service work.
So if he pleads or is found guilty to any charge, he can muster up these good deeds to put to the court in his favour. He should do things he doesn’t have to do, make some sacrifices, do all that anger management and counselling stuff.
He should certainly look to help tradie and his family even, if he can, without admitting he’s done anything wrong but definitely if he pleads guilty.
It might not save him from a custodial if he’s guilty but it may be taken into account. Isn’t something to help him better than nothing?
But this running about laughing and training with the squad pretending he’s part of the side,
Giggling away pretending he is a fully licensed and authorised NRL player. That he is like everyone else at training.
He’s not.
Junior is engaged in acts of denial, so is the club. It’s unrealistic and it’s harmful.
And I was reflecting on what people said earlier about culture ( good and strong whatever) and it’s a bad culture if everyone is feeding him blue sky promises. She will be right mate. You’re part of the gang. That’s just not true. Right now, he’s a genuine liability and most of the civilised folk in the club think he’s really stupid or a bad person. For better or worse, for reasons true or false, no one trusts him anymore.
The players, the group he likes and wants to be close to, they can’t help him. You see that in the interviews.
Someone has to sit down with him and tell him what’s going on. A bit of honesty. Hook?
If he goes to gaol, he’s going to be asking himself who helped him and who didn’t. He’s going to ask himself if he did everything he could.
And he’s just a kid, he’s relying on others, he really needs the tough love and needs to be cut loose, given the good oil and adequate support.
He’s not facing a pacific cruise.
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