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Langlands charged with child sex offences

carcharias

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The alleged crimes were committed on the Gold Coast, It doesn't matter where you live, your case will be heard in the state where the offence occurred,


The victim can apply for Victims of Crime Compensation in Queensland for amounts of up to $75000.

However. the Department of Justice and Attorney-General with recover this money from the offender if found guilty, Good luck getting blood out of a stone,

Wonder if he has family up there.
 

veggiepatch1959

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He is a resident in a Sutherland nursing home, has a daughter who lives on the NSW Southern Highlands and a son who has nothing to do with him, Other than that - nothing,
 

Pedge1971

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It's about the shame and embarrassment you feel after a sexual assault, You try to put the memory of it into the deepest, darkest recesses of you mind.

It took me over 15 years to mention my sexual assault to anyone. Being cornered in a public toilet by a very sexually aroused naked male at the age of 14 isn't something you blurt out to your mates as if nothing happened.

Totally. And society often supports the accused more than the victim. Sad but true.
 

JamesRustle

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The date and location are such that one could speculate Billy Slater could be the illegitimate offspring of the assault... he certainly got the full-back gene but didn't get the goal kicking gene.
 

Pedge1971

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Tell that to the people who have had their lives ruined by false accusations.

Agree that is appalling and should not happen. But are you saying that should be a reason for discouraging victims who have legitimately been attacked coming forward? Genuinely interested in understanding your view.
 

OldPanther

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Agree that is appalling and should not happen. But are you saying that should be a reason for discouraging victims who have legitimately been attacked coming forward? Genuinely interested in understanding your view.

Of course not. I don't like "listen and believe" I prefer somethong closer to "trust but varify". That's why, as hard as it is, victims need to come forward straight away so the authorities can gather physical evidence etc. Much more chance of a result.
 

Timmah

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Of course not. I don't like "listen and believe" I prefer somethong closer to "trust but varify". That's why, as hard as it is, victims need to come forward straight away so the authorities can gather physical evidence etc. Much more chance of a result.
I find it difficult to believe someone would express this view after what @veggiepatch1959 has said already in this thread.
 

OldPanther

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I find it difficult to believe someone would express this view after what @veggiepatch1959 has said already in this thread.

Why? He's not the only one in the thread who's had something happen. Not all victims have the same opinions. I acknowledged it is hard. Because it is. You're terrified and embarrassed but it is the best way to get justice.
 

M2D2

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People lie. They just do. I know two people who have lied about being raped for two different reasons.
A healthy amount of skepticism is always needed, but a healthier dose of compassion and empathy is also needed, because people are f**king shit.
 

OldPanther

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People lie. They just do. I know two people who have lied about being raped for two different reasons.
A healthy amount of skepticism is always needed, but a healthier dose of compassion and empathy is also needed, because people are f**king shit.

Exactly.
 

Pedge1971

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People lie. They just do. I know two people who have lied about being raped for two different reasons.
A healthy amount of skepticism is always needed, but a healthier dose of compassion and empathy is also needed, because people are f**king shit.

But I bet u know no rapists or pedos who have lied cause they dont need to. They use their power to belittle, intimidate, terrify and threaten the victim.

The point is society and the law has made it hard for victims to speak up immediately. So your healthy skepticism means what?
 

veggiepatch1959

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I'm sorry it happened to you. Really sucks. I know the emotions that go along with it. I still haven't told anyone but my partner and anonymously on r/nrl while discussing the Langlands thing. It went a lot further with me. Was someone I trusted and looked up too.
I think that where a person who is held in a position of trust, is the perpetrator, would be far more devastating than what I experienced.

Hang in there buddy!
 

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