Nuffs said:
in NSW it is legal for under 18's to drink at a private house with parental permission
some parents have even sent "permission slips" asking the parents if their under 18 son/daughter can drink at the party. if the cops show up, they have the slips to prove which kids can continue drinking
did you ever want to have a beer with your dad in the middle of summer, while the BBQ was cooking, cicadas chirping, and the swimming pool filled with chlorine?? i bloody well did. he was my role model and i wanted to do wehat he was doing. so he'd give me a beer. then we went to 2. then we went onto 3 for parties. when i turned 16 he bought me 6 packs
I'm in the same boat. I grew up in a family where there was always dad's beer and mum's wine in the back fridge.
It started when I was about 11, just a mouthful of beer at the BBQ, then I got a bit older and graduated to the full tinny. By the time I was 15 I would drink socially at family gatherings, not to any great extent, 2 max. At that stage I never really felt compelled to get smashed.
When I hit 16, I started going to parties alot more and drinking there. I never went heaps overboard, except one or two times when I got off my face. Now, that I'm over 18, it doesn't really bother me heaps. I drink socially when I go out, only really get pissed if the occassion calls for it. After a going to a nightclub, I usually put away about 6-7 beers and back up fine the next morning, I dont drink that night at all, but I still feel in control.
My parents always trusted me with booze. I grew up around it, and returned their trust by not being a dickhead with it. Sure I mucked around sometimes at parties when I was younger, but I guess most young blokes did that when they first started. I knew what to expect when I went out as a teenager. I know alot of people whose parents were tight, and consequently, they drank behind their backs and got off their faces as soon as they saw booze. I always told my olds where I was going, when I'd be home, what I'd drink. I wasn't brought up smashing spirits, so I didn't really feel compelled to drink them when I was younger. If my parents didn't gradually integrate me into drinking socially, things would have gotten messy, I'm sure.
Like it or not, do it or don't, social drinking is heavily embedded into the Australian culture, in particular, the demographic of 17-29 range. Imagine the chaos if kids hitting this age just went nuts on the piss, not knowing the effects of how much they drank on their skills etc. Potentially, very dangerous. I'm happy my olds taught me about it, because it helped me develop my own limitations and standards.