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Mental Fitness Round -Nicho Hynes supporting recovery of Braydon Trindall, rough return date set for fallen playmaker

shadowboxer

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The Sharks did it to Brett Seymour. Its was ridiculous
It was cringe central at the ground, The article notes the crowd applauded loudly?? It was a bit like a minutes silence from memory.
Feel for Seymour - the bloke got stitched up being filmed stumbling along Cronulla street out the front of the same joint Blake Ferguson did far far worse….
Funny Zappia persuaded him to apologise, the bloke could convince oil is below the mangroves out the back of the club.
Dark times those.
 

Frenzy.

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Surely no one said he was an out of control junkie.

Just that the act was incredibly stupid and most certainly could have had dire consequences. At which point, the ramifications would have been massive.

Thankfully that did not occur, does not make it any less stupid.
It was said in this drunken post made at 12:34 26 April 2024. Probably been on the rum and milk all day prior

Sniffing drugs junkies.not needed
Alcoholic get guffeg
Dicjhead unlicensed cancelled. Disqualified
driving. Unbelievable. All allegations
Wake Up call you tool
 
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‘I’d rather save a life than score a try’: NRL star Nicho Hynes’ mission​

Following years of mental anguish, tears and a seemingly simple childhood dream to live as a family, Nicho Hynes has emerged as a powerful force of inspiration with the launch of his own Mental Fitness Round.
David Riccio


Not so long ago, Nicho Hynes didn’t know where to turn.
Playing park football and not even close to his dream NRL contract, the young footballer slipped into a depressive void that resembled little of his current status as one of rugby league’s most influential figures.
“It was 2017 and I was a shell of myself,” Hynes said.
“I didn’t know where I would ever be. I had no idea about life.
“I had no routine, I wasn’t eating well, I wasn’t doing good things in life, I was struggling.”
Six years after feeling lost and without hope, Hynes is on a mission to save lives.
The Cronulla Sharks star is using his own mental health battles as the driving force behind the launch of his very own Mental Fitness Round.
Hynes is the brainchild of the inaugural campaign which launches when Hynes’ Shark face St George Illawarra at PointsBet Stadium on Sunday and of which he hopes the rest of the NRL will embrace next season.

His challenging upbringing is well-documented.
Between the age of five and 12 his mother, Julie, was in and out of prison and Hynes lived with his father Mick Wilson.
Along with his older brother Wade, that was his entire family.
Following years of mental anguish, tears and a seemingly simple childhood dream to live as a family, Hynes has emerged as a powerful force of inspiration.
“I’ve been a big advocate over the last few years with my story and speaking about mental health, I’ve spoken so much about it out loud, so I need to follow through with it,” Hynes said.
“I felt like if I’m going to be someone who is an advocate for it and who speaks up, then I have to do something about it.
“There’s no better feeling than seeing a young kid or someone that messages me to tell me that I’ve changed their life.
“I don’t mean that to sound arrogant at all. But that’s better than scoring a try in any game of footy.
“Sometimes we can forget the impact we can have on people.
“Off the field is where I’d like to make a mark, it’s hard to put into words and how it makes me feel when someone tells me that I’ve been able to do that.”

Hynes has partnered with Gotcha4Life founder Gus Worland, the motivator behind Hynes discovering his mental resolve.
“When you get someone like Nicho, who stands out and says I heard you talk about mental health back in 2017 and now look at where I’m going, he’s the perfect example for others to look for as inspiration,” Worland said.
“I’m sure he would have got there in the end, because he was strong enough to tell a friend (that he was struggling), and that started to build that village for him.
“It’s like on the footy field, he can’t win on the weekend by himself, but he’s a chance if he’s got all his teammates with him.
“It’s the same in life.
“We tend to worry alone too much, we’re told to man-up and shut-up, well it’s time to man-up and speak-up, so to have people like Nicho stand-up and be vulnerable.
“If one kid listens on the weekend and goes I might tell Dad, my teacher or my coach how I’m feeling, that might change someone’s life completely and then all this would be worth it.”

Hynes said he’s also taken to offering support to his teammates, particularly on the impact on the mind of social media.
“What I say to the young fellas about social media is just to stay neutral, don’t ride the highs to high and the lows to low,” Hynes said.
“I think that instils a strong mental health instantly.
“Everyone is guilty early in their career when you start playing good footy, you check all the social media things that are being said about you and watch the news.
“That slowly drifts away as you get older and you learn.
“There’s so many different angles and pressures coming at you as a professional rugby league player that a lot of people don’t see.
“I’ll look for when one of the player’s walks through the door, he might not have as much energy as he usually does, or he might not have a smile on his face that day.
“I think there’s a lot of boys checking in on that player, even before I get to him.
“I can see it (rugby league culture) changing. Have we arrived anywhere with it yet? No.
“There’s still plenty of distance to go to get to where we want to get too in mental fitness, but I feel like where we’re at as a rugby league culture, there’s way more conversations being had.”


‘I’d rather save a life than score a try’: Hynes’ big mission
 
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Nicho Hynes and Cronulla Sharks coaches save man hanging from a bridge from falling to his death​

Two months ago, Nicho Hynes said he “would rather save a life than score a try”. Last Sunday he did, rescuing a man hanging from a bridge and threatening to fall to his death.
When Nicho Hynes flung open his passenger door on the iconic Sea Cliff Bridge, just north of Wollongong, it seemed like everything else was moving in slow motion.
A distraught teenage girl was pacing the pavement with a phone pressed to her ear.
An elderly couple shuffled out of the way, confused and frightened.
From the driver’s seat of his parked car, a man in his late 30s was yelling towards the hand railing of the bridge.
The sound of passing car horns felt distant, almost drowned out by the dire situation that was unravelling.
Yet everything else was racing inside Hynes: his mind, his heartbeat, his legs.
As the NRL star and Sharks assistant coach Steve Price hurried towards the intense commotion, around 1.30pm last Sunday, they discovered a man on the wrong side of the railing.
Leaning forward, the distressed man stared down at the rocky 135-foot drop.
He was screaming for his life to be over.
Only the strained grip of his hands wrapped to the steel railing stopped him from falling to his certain death.
Just 90 seconds was all it took for Hynes, Price and fellow Sharks assistant coach Daniel Holdsworth to save the 57-year-old’s life.
“When I jumped out of the car, Pricey (Price) also jumped from his passenger seat while DJ (Holdsworth) began calling an ambulance,” Hynes said.
“People were watching on, almost in a daze.
“I thought, ‘What the hell is everyone doing?’
“So I just ran towards him.
“I didn’t want to see what we could’ve seen (the man jumping).
“I didn’t say anything straight away. I just grabbed his arm so he didn’t let go of the bridge.”
They didn’t have time to think about their decision to run towards the father of two.
They didn’t have time to think that their human instincts to help the man could indeed have the opposite effect.
That their hurried feet running towards the railing could result in the man letting go.
No one could imagine the trauma and psychological impact that could have followed.
“It is upsetting to think about now, what could’ve happened. That’s something that you never want to contemplate, but at the time we just wanted to help,” Hynes said.
Price added: “When we approached him it took about 15 seconds for him to realise that we weren’t here to judge him — we were here to help.”
Hynes and Price shifted the subject from the obvious.
What’s your name?
Where are you from?
Do you like footy?
What team do you support?
“I then said, ‘Do you know this bloke?” Price said, while gesturing towards the 2022 Dally M winner.
“He said: ‘Oh, Nicho Hynes’.
“It was at that moment we could feel him relax a little bit and then, almost simultaneously, I gave Nicho a little nod.
“We each grabbed one hand on the back pocket of his jeans and the other hand on his top and we pulled him back over the high railing.
“It was about a minute-and-a-half and we had him back over the fence.”
The Sharks trio had been on their way to a barbecue at Cronulla head coach Craig Fitzgibbon’s house, just south of the Sea Cliff Bridge, last Sunday when their extraordinary instincts took over.
“I was driving and I could see that a car had pulled over on the bridge with its lights flashing,” Holdsworth said.
“I said to Nicho and Pricey, ‘That guy is going to jump’.
“It’s amazing what your instincts lead you to do in that situation.
“I’m not sure everyone would do the same thing.
“Nicho and Pricey were seriously brave in my eyes, they didn’t hesitate. They ran straight toward the guy as I pulled over to phone an ambulance.”
With the man sitting safely on the pavement, Hynes and Price then led him towards Holdsworth’s car.
“We just kept talking to him, about his life, his kids, who he used to play footy for, his reasons for supporting the Bulldogs,” Hynes said.
“And that, with help, he could get through the pain that he was in.”
Price added: “I was in the back seat with him.
“And just told him that he’s just met three new mates.
Holdsworth drove the man towards the lights and sirens of oncoming police and ambulance, pulling over to help the man into the care of professionals.
“I grabbed his number before he got out of the car and told him that we wanted him to get the help he needed and that once he was ready, we’d get him to a Sharks game,” Hynes said.
The incredible intervention unfolded less than 24 hours before Hynes would suffer a broken ankle and major ligament damage at Sharks training.
He will miss the next eight weeks of the NRL season for Cronulla.
“You’d think the karma gods would be on my side,” Hynes smiled.
Despite the disappointment of requiring ankle surgery, Hynes called the man to check on his welfare last Wednesday.
“It was nice to hear that he was in a better place, he’s getting the professional help that he needs,” Hynes said.
“He thanked us, which is nice.
“But really, we were just doing what I hope anyone else would do in that situation.’’
The decision by one of the NRL’s most popular players, alongside two of the game’s most respected coaches, to save a man’s life is one of the most extraordinary stories of the year.
It’s also layered with deep and personal meaning for Hynes.
Less than two months ago, the Sharks star announced that he was using his own mental health battles as the driving force behind the launch of his very own Mental Fitness Round, which was held last May when Cronulla played St George Illawarra, and that he plans to grow into an annual event.
Hynes claimed at the time that such was his passion to encourage men, women and teenagers to be more vocal about mental health that he “would rather save a life than score a try.”
Unimaginably, that happened last weekend.





 

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