Norway isn't socialist either though. They are social democrats, which is essentially a welfare state, much like what already exists in the US. But you're right, it's a matter of definitions. There's a Lukas Moodysson film called Tillsammans where a woman leaves her abusive husband to live in her brother's urban Stockholm commune (it's set in the 70s). Late in the film he tries to reconcile with her and she points out she's a socialist and it wouldn't work. He says he's a socialist too and she says no, you're a socialdemokrat. It struck a nerve with me because it's about the time I realised I wasn't a socialist either. Big fan of the welfare state though, within reason.