That's what I said!!!! She's not family! But he feels like she is, because it's his best friends ma. I told him he has to tell his friend tomorrow to sort something out. We are in a bad place, and this is the worst timing possible. We don't need it and I'm angry. I've always been a me person. I like my own company more than being with anyone else. When he is on night shift, I love being on my own. When I'm at work, he loves video games and beer. She's ruining both of our processes and coping mechanisms.