Say it. You seem to have an opinion about how I can change the life at the drop of a hat. Go on. What's stopping you?
I love it. You care enough to tell someone a hard truth and they retort with anger as if you have no right to comment on their life despite their actions being public. You don't care enough and stay the hell out and you are actually being uncaring as you are more worried about being in the good books rather than helping the person :roll:
I think the point I find most frustrating is you know what you're doing (i.e. making these comments about yourself) is extremely damaging to yourself, yet you continue to do it despite it being the one thing you can actually control.
Forget all the stuff about your parents, your mindset etc. What you post here is the one thing you actually can control, yet you choose to self flagellate. And when someone dares to suggest you should stop, you get pissy about it and play the victim status 'Oh woe is me, you don't know how hard it is.'
Sure, I don't. You know what? I don't walk your shoes and I don't know how hard it is. But I do know you could stop doing that.
The frustrating thing is you seem to think your mental state justifies you doing it when in fact it is a personal choice and you are under no compulsion to do so.
This is no doubt something that could get me in trouble or earn the ire of others on here but I'm not posting this in some weak attempt to drive her away - I'm simply trying to point out that her continual posting that she is fat is a personally destructive behaviour that is doing her more harm than it is good.
