I think it is a legitimate 'gripe'. Very unprofessional of the Club to be an 'absentee', irrespective of what people think of Fitzy.
But whether Denis attended, or did not attend - to get his Life Membership is neither here nor there.
It is a well deserved honour. Life memberships are not given away. They have to be earned, and congratulations to Fitzy on gaining the recognition of his peers in this manner.
BTW, it is a new board, and they should be made aware of their responsibilities are. The place to raise those concerns are at an AGM, don't you agree?