Perception plays a massive role in communication. If people read stuff like those articles, then perception becomes involved - and it often sticks. Which is why we need to do more to stop incidents happening, especially on a regular occurrence. I know the clubs are doing heaps, but if we can do more then by all means do it.
Let's send kids to tertiary institutions on scholarships before they play full time football to get an education. Let them become more rounded people and get that crap out of their system before they are in the public spotlight. Send kids out for full time or almost full time work before they play full time football for the same reason. Bring them back as more rounded individuals. Punish harshly. Start initiatives for players which are advertised to the public often and regularly such as volunteer work. Run a documentary showing them doing good work over a season and what they experience. Make them human again and not "stars". Make them accessible to the average public. I don't mean just fan days either. I mean let people see them on television in average situations and find out what they experience. Television is the dominant medium around and has the most emotional impact, so if the NRL can make the players seem human again, rather than Neanderthals, it removes much of that perception associated with them. Not all but some.
So if players go to tertiary institutions they'll become more rounded individuals... Please enlighten me about what it is to be "more rounded".
I know two people in my family who didn't go to university yet one is a company CEO of an Australian top 100 firm, the other part owns a business that has an international presence. I also know many people who finished with uni degrees who are great people too. Also on those uni degree people, one in particular has stuffed his family with gambling debts, another is a guest of her majesty for some serious dishonesty offences.
I think you have missed the point in your crusade. Have people really had enough of all this terrible dog licking stuff, or are people happy to be so easily aghast when a Rugby League player does something, wrong, unhygienic, criminal, negligent, ridiculous, anti social or rude?
The facts are Rugby League sells papers. Rugby League orgies, scandals and animal feeding sell more papers. It's why the Bulldogs scadal received four full pages for 9 days but when Police received a legal advising not to charge it received half a page in one tabloid issue. Papers would rather sauce over truth, the social pages liftout are getting bigger and bigger in all metro papers. The fancy lifestyle is craved by many of the readership. The footballer lifestyle is one that mesmerises many. The judgement fallout against this Monaghan kid is a fantastic hypocritical hysteria. All the good this kid has done in his own time scored him zero points and very little in print area of the daily rag. None of these lads get elected into their positions of power, none are famous for fames sake, most are acknowledged by the community as being young men, full of beans, incredibly fit and fast, and usually with minimal education, yet some in the community still expect utopian behavioural perfection from these people.
Yeah they represent our game, and yes our game has faced numerous challenges from disclosed poor and alleged poor behaviour in recent seasons. Additionally in that period, despite all the doom and gloom from negative speakers - the popularity of Rugby League is soaring like never before.
This hope for glorious behaviour perfection... It's unrealistic. It doesn't matter to what lengths we go in education, deportment training, tertiary education, dog walking, tea party practise etc, you will still see some bloke in his 20's stuffing up. It is reality. The media are looking for people to stuff up, heck even Malcolm Fraser was caught with his pants down - oh terrible stuff.
People are so easily offended these days, some people appear to crave the feeling of being offended. We have lost out edge. I saw the photo of Joel Monaghan... although the move isn't in my bag of tricks, I wasn't offended. I didn't find it funny either but it's not my kind of joke, however in defence of them, those fellows aren't in my group of friends and it appears to have been an inside joke because the apologies are coming out faster than the XPT. So I wasn't hysterically offended, I haven't called for stiff one and only chance penalties. For me to be offended it takes a little more than what can be seen in this photo.
I understand many people have different values and different opinions to me but seriously, we put up with the Greens, we don't go around stoning them do we?
The bottom line for me out of all this is the over-reaction to this particular matter has been stark. It deserved a shake of the head, but strike me pink we as a society need to harden up a little, get a bit of perspective, empty the double standard gun and start getting on with our own lives. And at the same time keep supporting the footy... no matter the code that you prefer.
....or you can remain offended, best of luck with that.