It's a test that females always typically dish out. She says that she wants you to go with a mate, in reality she wants you to take her. If you end up going with a mate, when you go home she'll be angry and pissed off with you and you will be left guessing. She'll use this to manipulate you and get her way with you and generally make your life a misery. Then you'll get married and 20 years later she'll still be bringing this up whenever you have an argument. It's trap and a life sentance mate, be very careful!